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How to get your sex drive back? I can’t seem to get wet

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 years, are sex life has always been great until recently. I got on birth control and after a couple months I noticed it was making my sex drive go away, I didn’t want it coming between our relationship because well sex is definitely a big part in a healthy relationship. So we talked about it and I got off of it, fast forward to now we’ve decided we want to start a family but once again I have absolute no sex drive. We start to do things in the bedroom and I just can’t seem to get myself in the mood. We’ve had sex a few times but honestly it was me just trying to actually finally do the deed(we needed a lot of lube) after a few failed attempts. So my question is how do I even begin to go about this? It especially hurts me because we really wanna start a family. Also I am only 23.
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So, are you spending a lot of time on foreplay?  And artificial lubrication is not a bad thing to get you going.  :>)
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