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who is the father

okay i know i am not perfect. but i had intercourse with my ex on dec 31. when we broke up i was hurt and angry and had sex with someone else on january 4th or the 5th. on jan 21st i found out i was pergnant. the dr told me that my conception date was jan 3rd with a due date on sept 29th. my problem is who more likly fatherd my son dec 31 or jan 4th. need help  i am really confused. i feel that dec 31 is the father or maybe it is hopeful thinking. but one good thing is that the are both good men sofar. please help with guidence.    
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Hi my due date is September 26 based on my last menstrual cycle which was December 21-25, during the whole month of december i had sex with my husband up until January 1st. We left each other and I had sex with a different man in January 14 only one time. Who is more likely to be the father?
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I feel as if the guy on the 31st is just because when he you know inside you them lil fellows can live 3-5 days in you and if you conceived on the 3rd his lil fellows were still swimming in there.
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See I got that the December 31 guy is the father, because how if you conceived on Jan 3 and slepted with the other guy Jan 4 you were already pregnant when you slepted with the second guy. Unless I'm not reading it right, but good luck anyways.
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I was  reading your post the one on the 4th sounds like the father. good luck when you have your new baby!!
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There are paternity tests that can be done while the baby is in utero. A friend of mine had the same situation. She had blood taken from the baby when she was 20 weeks along. She is waiting for the results. This can be risky to the baby. I suggest you talk to your doctor and find out more information.
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Like someone else said. Sperm can survive up to five days after being released. So from December 31-January3 thats only three days. Most likely the father of the baby is your ex. The only other possible solution is that the baby is measuring big. But even then ultrasounds are pretty exact. I think it was your ex. The only way to know for sure is to get a paternity test. I would recommend getting one AFTER the baby is born because most places wont even do one while the baby is still in the womb because its to risky.
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I THINK THAT THE ONE U SLEPT W IN THE 4TH IS THE FATHER CUZIT IS ONLY ONE DAY AWAY FROM UR CONCEPTION DAY
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