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I seriously need reassurance, my labia minora is NOT NORMAL
I think my vagina is very very ugly. the labia minora is a darkened color and it is almost 2 times longer that the outer lips. My boyfriend is a lot more experienced than i am. I've only been with one other guy before him. He says that i am "different", but won't admit whether it turns him off or not. But our sex is still great. i've seen pictures and videos of other people's vaginas and it only makes me feel uglier.
Please tell me that there are others out there with the same "problem". i wish i had a pretty little pink one like the girls in porn clips; but i do not want surgery. We love eachother very much and i don't want this "isseue" to ruin our sexlife due to my lack of self esteem. Big sisters..please help!
Please tell me that there are others out there with the same "problem". i wish i had a pretty little pink one like the girls in porn clips; but i do not want surgery. We love eachother very much and i don't want this "isseue" to ruin our sexlife due to my lack of self esteem. Big sisters..please help!
I am only fifteen and I am really worried. I am just about getting into a proper relationship now but there's no way I would have sex now because I am embarrased of my labia minora. I have gone so far to show people and they have said its fine but it looks really long compared to others and I am a virgin. I have talked to my best friend but it was really hard, I don't think she really understood. Can anyone help me please?! I would be so grateful! Thanks, EJB.
Hi, I am a guy and let me tell you one thing first....variety is the spice of life!
Now, you are different, all women are different and that is the excitement men receive from different women.....you just need to make sure your man is done with his wandering years though.
I have seen the full spectrum of lips. all dark, all light, light with dark edges, non existent lips, larger than normal clitoris. The are all nice; that is the bottom line...they are all nice!
Now, I prefer to see the female anatomy vice not...so the more the better. Again, I do not prefer the little to no lips but they will suffice. Variety is the spice of life.
btw, i am married and i do not engage in that "variety" thing anymore...but there was a time when i did....it was after my divorce from a cheating spouse who had a darked edge on her lips (i hate that now for obvious reasons!) My current wife has the entire region darker as well but does not have the black trim on the edge. She has normal size lips but a larger than normal clitoris. Regardless, I love my wife and that is what makes her special...what sets her apart. I crave her body parts and cant live without them!
You are fine! In fact I would say beautiful but out of respect for our partners I will refrain!
Now, you are different, all women are different and that is the excitement men receive from different women.....you just need to make sure your man is done with his wandering years though.
I have seen the full spectrum of lips. all dark, all light, light with dark edges, non existent lips, larger than normal clitoris. The are all nice; that is the bottom line...they are all nice!
Now, I prefer to see the female anatomy vice not...so the more the better. Again, I do not prefer the little to no lips but they will suffice. Variety is the spice of life.
btw, i am married and i do not engage in that "variety" thing anymore...but there was a time when i did....it was after my divorce from a cheating spouse who had a darked edge on her lips (i hate that now for obvious reasons!) My current wife has the entire region darker as well but does not have the black trim on the edge. She has normal size lips but a larger than normal clitoris. Regardless, I love my wife and that is what makes her special...what sets her apart. I crave her body parts and cant live without them!
You are fine! In fact I would say beautiful but out of respect for our partners I will refrain!
What a loser.
That person obviously has only been with one person or none.
Even on porn they sizes and colours are different.
Everyone is different!
I think my clitoris is a little bigger than normal, but my boyfriend likes it.
Be more confident and love yourself.
That person obviously has only been with one person or none.
Even on porn they sizes and colours are different.
Everyone is different!
I think my clitoris is a little bigger than normal, but my boyfriend likes it.
Be more confident and love yourself.
rub your labias on your boyfriends face...he'll definately love it trust me,boys always gets turned on by the sweet aroma of our feminity. try it...it'll work,keep posting
hi, and i think i'm going through the same thing as you. except i'm a bit behind, i'm 15 and have noticed for a few years that my right labia minoria just kinda popped out one day. i don't recall scratching it obsessivly but something is deffinately strange. i want to talk to my mom about it but would be way too embarassed. the left side looks completly normal and can't understand what happened. the right side looks pretty gross to me and multiple times i've tried to tuck in the weird little flap but i know that no matter what i do if and when i ever with a guy and he's down "there" i know it'll come untucked or whatever and the only thing i'll be thinking about is what he is thinking and if he thinks its gross. i feel like i ruined my future sex life and its killing me. if anyone as any tips or advice please let me know!
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