You are incorrect.
Having sex with a toy is matsurbation. It does not mean that you have lost your virginity. Virgin is defined as not having sexual intercourse and intercourse is defined as dealings between individuals or groups. Therefore to have sexual intercourse more than one person must be involved. The other definition of virgin is of course inexperience and if one has not had sexual intercourse with another one is not experienced.
In conclusion having sex with a toy means that, yes you are still a virgin!
Definitions from a dictionary below:
vir·gin
ˈvərjən/
noun
noun: virgin; plural noun: virgins
1.
a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
synonyms: chaste woman/man, celibate;
2.
a person who is naive, innocent, or inexperienced, especially in a particular context.
in·ter·course
noun: intercourse
communication or dealings between individuals or groups.
I'm having the same problem, except I'm in a relationship and he thinks i'm cheating because of the smell...
The reason it gets stronger before your period... that's normal, happens with everyone. It just gets stronger than you're usual scent. And it is normal to become hornier during this time, because that is when you're ovulating, and your body wants to fertilize. So that's normal!
Do not take long hot baths, soaking in hot water can increase your chance of getting yeast infections. You say the docs all say you're nomal, mine do to. All my paps and std tests have come back normal and negative. Do you wash your toys? They make toy cleaner that is safer to use than soap and water. I noticed my smell increased after beginning to use my toy. Also, if you do an anal masturbation, do not use the same toy vaginally till after it's been cleaned.
I'm of no help, other than knowing you're not alone...
Possibly change of diet, i've read some where, more fruits and veggies can help balance the ph (not just in guys), washing twice a day plus rinsing or using feminine wipes after using the restroom. (i worked with a gal that wouldn't use the restroom if she ran out of them at work!) If you work out or after you masturbate, always wash up. sweat and fluids can get into the many folds and create a pungent smell. but basically the only help ive found so far is to wash wash wash. thank you for your post :)