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Strong odor after masturbation/sex with sex toys? Please help!

I am in my mid 20s and I'm still a virgin. I get desires and I am trying to hold out until marriage.
So of course I use sex toys.
I notice that after I have sex with the sex toys, that my vaginal odor is strong.
I take showers and bathe faithfully but the smell is sometimes still there.
My old boss actually pulled me to the side and asked am I sexually active.She said she asked that because my odor  had been strong.It was so embarassing.
When I lived with my parents, my mom said she could smell it sometimes and knew I was in my room doing you know what.
This is embarassing.

I do ****** but I read that repeat douching messes up vaginal ph and causes other problems.
I want to have children someday and I don't want to mess it up by repeat douching.
I also faithfully only use the Summers Eve feminine wash down there.I even use it on my senior residents at the nursing home I work at and it gets rid of vaginal odors and pee smells on them.
My odor is sometimes strong and I'm aware of it and I am so embarassed.

I also notice that sometimes my vaginal secretion stains the lining of my panties.The secretion is thin and clear which is normal but it leaves a slight dark mark on the lining of my panties.

I have been having sex with sex toys everyday and I go for it 3 to 6 times.
I know thats weird but my desires are getting stronger as I get older.I'm still a virgin but I crave sex and that need hasn't been met because I'm still unmarried.I have even been considering going agains the Bible and my religious beliefs and possibly considering not waiting until marriage.
I notice after I am done satisfying myself that the odor comes and sometimes even after I faithfully take a shower or bath, it's still there.I have been using the FDS spray to subside the smell because I don't want to offend anyone.
But this is getting embarassing.
I have had exams by 3 different doctors, and they say I'm fine.Nothing abnormal.

But its the odor that's bothering me.
Is it normal for women to have an odor after they masturbate or have sex?
How do you get it to go away without having to ******?
Douching repeatedly messes up the ph levels and I don't want to screw my chances of having children up because of messed up ph levels.
I heard about that new product called Refresh, but those applications are $18 a box! Jesus Christ! I don't make money like that yet!
How do you get the odor to go away without continuously having to ******?
Does a really long soak in the tub help?

I notice the week before my period its even stronger after I have sex with the sex toys and I am extremely horny the week before and day before I come down, so I sometimes go for longer and then the odor comes stronger.
Even after shower/baths I smell it.
My mom smelled twice before.
My old boss pulled me to the side and asked if I was active because she said my odor is strong and its the familiar smell of someone who is getting some.
This is embarassing.

Please help!
How do you get that smell to subside after masturbating without having to keep douching every single day?
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You are incorrect.
Having sex with a toy is matsurbation. It does not mean that you have lost your virginity. Virgin is defined as not having sexual intercourse and intercourse is defined as dealings between individuals or groups. Therefore to have sexual intercourse more than one person must be involved. The other definition of virgin is of course inexperience and if one has not had sexual intercourse with another one is not experienced.
In conclusion having sex with a toy means that, yes you are still a virgin!
Definitions from a dictionary below:

vir·gin
ˈvərjən/
noun
noun: virgin; plural noun: virgins
1.
a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
synonyms: chaste woman/man, celibate;
2.
a person who is naive, innocent, or inexperienced, especially in a particular context.

in·ter·course
noun: intercourse
communication or dealings between individuals or groups.
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I'm having the same problem, except I'm in a relationship and he thinks i'm cheating because of the smell...
The reason it gets stronger before your period... that's normal, happens with everyone. It just gets stronger than you're usual scent. And it is normal to become hornier during this time, because that is when you're ovulating, and your body wants to fertilize. So that's normal!
Do not take long hot baths, soaking in hot water can increase your chance of getting yeast infections. You say the docs all say you're nomal, mine do to. All my paps and std tests have come back normal and negative. Do you wash your toys? They make toy cleaner that is safer to use than soap and water. I noticed my smell increased after beginning to use my toy. Also, if you do an anal masturbation, do not use the same toy vaginally till after it's been cleaned.
I'm of no help, other than knowing you're not alone...
Possibly change of diet, i've read some where, more fruits and veggies can help balance the ph (not just in guys), washing twice a day plus rinsing or using feminine wipes after using the restroom. (i worked with a gal that wouldn't use the restroom if she ran out of them at work!) If you work out or after you masturbate, always wash  up. sweat and fluids can get into the many folds and create a pungent smell. but basically the only help ive found so far is to wash wash wash. thank you for your post :)
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