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LARGE MONS PUBIS

HELP. i've a large pubic bone and fat mons pubis. if i wear bicycle pants or something a bit tight it doesnt look like a regular mound.it looks like i have b*lls. i think its because my pubic bone is high. and my mons is really plump and fat, not like a usual mound. others often make fun of me, they say i’m actually a man, that i’m not normal, that i’m disgusting, etc. and when i walk in a bikini or swimsuit in the beach or the swimming pool, i can feel people staring DOWN,once, there was even a group of girls and some boys actually giggling about it. its really uncomfortable. it looks really round, fat and it protrudes outwards. and i’m not overweight AT ALL, but that section is damn fat.i’m 18 and im not sexually active, im embarassed. what do you think should be done? surgery’s my last option..
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I want to know if you all really  have large mons  because mine is a monster. Is there a way to upload pics to this forum only? I guess i would like to come out of the closet so to speak. I feel safe here and i feel such a sense of relief. Like many of you I also feel alone and have never seen one like mine. I live in Texas and have not seen anyone  similar to my size. I just want to see others like me. Maybe there should some kind of convention for us to all meet maybe share some coping skills,emotional support  or some fashion tips perhaps.
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How to changer my MONS-PUBIS colour(From Black colour to white colour) ?
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Has anyone on this blog had the lipo
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My heart goes out to everyone struggling with this insecurity, I have been through all of it my self- Highschool, college and now at 28 I am still dealing with this issue with my co-workers. All of the starring, pointing, laughing, jokes, curel notes or pictures being drawn, in my experience all of this was caused by women- women pay more attention to details including checking out other women from head to toe, and of course gossiping!!

Its a struggle on a daily basis simply getting dressed, shopping, intimacy. Whenever I am talking to someone I watch their eyes to see if they are "looking there" or hoping that they wont notice even though I always try to keep it covered. I have an amazing husband who accepts me the way I am, but I can't seem too. I have tried theraphy however I am still struggle to be happy with it. I wish I could make everyone feel better and take all of the hurt away from all of us but only we can do that for ourselves. We can accept it and live with it, or we can change it- its our bodies our decisions.

Has any one had a liposuction surgery done in the Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, North Bay or Sudbury Area? If you have can you please tell me where, your experience and if you were happy with the results??
Thank you.
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what kind of bike?
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It's good to know there are more women out there that struggle with the same thing i do I've always been on the large side i wouldn't say fat but I've never been skinny. When I go to the beach or even just swimming with local friends i never have fun bcuz my body... I always have to have something sitting in my lap to cover up my embarrassing body parts :( I feel like i will never find any one that will like me bcuz my body is not beautiful like all the other girls i see! All i want is to be normal.... Why do i have to be this way :(( it seems like im the only girl in my entire school even in the entire county i live in that is dealing with this issue.. I want to get surgery done to fix this but i dnt have the money to do it. With my breast size butt size and large mons pubis i just don't feel the joy in life that every other girl feels. But at least it's good to know im not alone in this....
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