Like to have vaginal orgasms

[Nonorgasmic]

I have had no problem to have several and multiple orgasms with clitorus stimulation, but it's been very, very difficult for me to have vaginal orgasms.  Due to this I am loosing the desire to have sex.  My lubrication has been perfect, but I noticed the last time my husband and I had sex, penetration hurts me because my lubrication was not good enough.  I am worried about that, because, I like sex, and I would like to be a vaginal orgasmic woman.   Is there any way I could become a vaginal orgasmic woman????    Should I take those vitamins they promote to have sexual desire and to have orgasms?    

Thanks in advance for your responses.

[leela555]

The left lip of vegina is swalllen just after the first intercourse. there is no ppain whein i press it but wihile penetration whein it brushers wih penis it pains.  and i feel uneasy to sit.

[Milfilicious78]

I've said this to, like 4 ppl already:
"R u kidding me? I googled this recently b/c I was highly frustrated with my sitch which is pretty much the same!!
THIS is interesting:

http://www.feministezine.com/feminist/modern/The-Myth-ofthe-Vaginal-Orgasm.html

I can only orgasm clitorally and I have had my fair share of partners and ONE only ONE I have been able to clitorally orgasm with but here's why:

1. I was on top and did the controlling, i.e. clitoral stimulation against his pubic bone.

2. He stayed hard for a long time.

3. I think I may have some kind of S&M thing b/c that Man used to beat meeee.

So, yeah, I'm all screwed up about it over here, too, just wanna let u know u r not alone and by God if u can get it done yourself, at least u have that!"

[RockRose]

I think vaginal orgasms are a myth.    I don't think anyone actually has "vaginal orgasms" - they're all clitoral.  

Do you notice you can't feel a tampon when it's in?  There aren't a lot of nerve endings in the vagina.  

I'm not quite sure why you are drawing this distinction between the two anyway - what makes you want one over the other?