I cant get wet

[HardcoreLover]

Hey guys.
Im 16 years old and I tried to have sex for the first time last year. I didn't really get wet. Neither did I the second and the third time. We had foreplay, he was fingering me, he licked me. NOTHING. I was a little bit ashamed, it was my first time. Then I had sex with my schoolmate. Didn't get wet again but he didn't notice because we were both so drunk... And now my new boyfriend  he really likes fingering (at a public place, with friends, alone...), but I haven't let him finger me yet. Im so horny when Im with him and I want this relationship to last but Im so scared I wont get wet again.
I heard you have to drink a lot of water and no alcohol (^I was drunk all the times) and some seeds flaxseeds or something.
Please please help :S

[HardcoreLover]

Stop having sex? But I actually enjoy having sex. Yes I know i shouldnt be drinking but its only once i 2/3 weeks and I only have 3-4 beers. And I burn them off the very next day when I go to the gym. Im a sports girl and I go to gym 6 out of 7 days for an hour and a half

[HardcoreLover]

Hello :) about the mastrubating and lubricant - I dont really like to mastrubate and Im not sure about lubricant. Today i drinked a lot of water and even befor he started fingering me I got wet. Thanks

[HardcoreLover]

Hello specialmom :) my partners were all 18 and they did excite me... specially this one :) About my user name xD it isnt about sex. Its about music - I listen to hardcore, hardstyle, techno and house ;) and you dont need to worry about my protection, I use it. Im not an alcoholic or anything but I was really nervous all the times and I had some beers before. I dont mix alcohol because I only like  beer. Thanks for answering and I sure hope to get more replies  

[specialmom]

Oh, I missed that you are drinking too.  Ugh.  Sweetie, these are the things that wreck a teens life.  Sex as a teen happens but I can't tell you how many people look back on their teen years and have regrets.  Drinking is unacceptable for a teenager.  Period.  good luck

[specialmom]

Young lovers sadly often don't know what they are doing.  Perhaps your partner is inept at this point and not exciting you or perhaps some kind of mental hang ups (which would be normal for a 16 year old girl) regarding sex is creating a barrier.  

your user name concerns me.  I sure hope you are using reliable protection every single time!!  And remember, this is your body.  Give it away very carefully and with much much thought.  good luck

[BluCrystal]

Stop having sex, please.  You are not physically or mentally mature enough for sexual relationships.  You should also not be drinking.  This is very hrmful to your body, and it clouds your descision making.  Please keep us updated, as we DO care about you here!  Blessings - Blu

[Caryopteris]

I think you're just not old enough to have it all coordinate yet.  You'll get there.  there is no rush.  You can buy some lubricant and experiment with masturbation.  You need to learn to relax.  Having it all work is a state of mind, and at 16 you are still learning and you should not expect to be an expert.  

[HardcoreLover]

Ohh and i forgot to add. I cant even get wet when I mastrubate. Sometimes when Im watching porn if its a good one I get wet but when i try to masturbate then I get all dried up again.