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Odd question

For me personally this may be TMI, but most of the time I am "wet" down there. But last night was the first time that I wasn't, I was extremely dry. My boyfriend was finguring me last night, and i couldnt feel anything, like i normally do. Normally once his fingers are on my clit i start then, but last night I couldnt. I had no pleasure at all, it was like I lost my mojo. I was turned on the whole time we were together, but for some reason my body wasn't? Is that weird? I always can get off like that, but last night I couldnt. What happened??? Is this something to be concerned about? He felt really upset last night, that he couldnt pleasure me, but I said it wasnt his fault.

I know I may be over reacting but this has never happened to me before, and it feels so weird.

~niki~
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172023 tn?1334672284
Niki,

My advice is to take up bowling.  You guys need another  hobby.

Sincerely,
Peek.  
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172023 tn?1334672284

Seriously, sometimes you will be less turned on than other times.  That's life, girl.  Don't worry about it.  Could be the hormones you are taking for your other problem, too.  
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I know, but it was just so not like me. It felt sooo strange. And yes we do go bowling actually, we went last week and he kicked my a$$. lol

Thanks
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men take it so personally, a singer Tori Amos had a line in a song "so you think you can make me *** does that make you jesus?" and it described it to a t. you know we just sometimes have things on our minds, we drank too many beers, hormones are off. dont worry about it. tell bf to get some new tricks lol. happens to the best of us!
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lol, i know!!! but it was odd, because i was turned on the whole time, and then like BAM! my body shut down, and i wanted nothing at all...ha crazy for me though. I hope this weekend is good, because were spending it together...woo

thanks
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