Have you tried to just "trim" the area, even with a shaver, you can grab the hair and "shave" it off. It makes it shorter and then you wont bleed. Also, if you condition the hair, it will feel softer so it won't be so irritating. Another suggestion is using a men's shaver, they are mean't for sensitive skin, the Mach 3-4 seems to work, and when you shave, shave hair down or away from the follicle, then it won't irritate the follicle. Good luck..
Trying shaving the right side sideways and then the left side sideways. I shave that way and never have irritation.
I used Nads under my arms once... hurt like hell! But I didn't have to shave for like, 2-3 months and it was great. I may try that... thanks!
I shave frequently too, and wax in the summer....can't STAND having hair there. I shave SIDEWAYS. For instance, on the left side bikini area, I shave from the leg (left to right), sideways to the private. Works well, and I don't suffer irritation. If you ever decide to try WAX, use NADS from Walgreens...as it is NOT heated, and is easy on your skin. Waxing causes light bleeding, but it soooooo worth it at certain times of the year!