charting temps is great since it lets you see what your body is doing. there are many sites, webwomb, fertilityfriend and such that might help you. using an opk can tell you when you are going to O, but if you have no idea then i suppose you have to take them every day (ladies help me out!). cervical mucus changes during your cycle as well. not everyone has the same or the "typical" mucus changes. webwomb gives great example how you should be throughout your cycle. your cycle is random and not regular? have you discussed this with your dr? good luck i know it can be hard, but when you learn your body it makes a huge difference!! good luck ttc!
thanks perty. No I havent asked the dr I did go for hormone tests and tvu etc and all came bk fine. I am wondering if I have endo as around AF I can feel something hard in there but when I asked the dr she said there was nothing on us. They said they could check with keyhole but seem to want to, I have another app around feb or so, so I might ask then if it hasnt gone. Il have to start temping and see then I guess. wow OPK everyday hehe! I better get on ebay!
well im not sure about the opk. i just know that if you have no idea, then maybe you would have to. i suggest temping and then using that with the opk. of course someone may have better advice!!