Pregnant after being fingered? PLEASE HELP ME :(

[thisisrealcool]

Okay, so. I am 16 years old. Last night, I was with my boyfriend. And things got intense. We started to kiss and then he continued to finger me. But I made sure that he hadn't masturbated before doing this action. I asked him when the last time he masturbated, and he said he couldn't remember. So I believed him that it was safe because it was probably a few days ago before this happened. He had taken a shower before I picked him up and he said that even if he still has sperm on his fingers the soap and **** would have taken care of it. I got my period Sunday which was the 23rd, and it got over Thursday. I know this is silly but I am SO SO SO afraid that I might be pregnant from this. After this happened I started to feel gross. Like, my lower stomach hurt and where my ovaries are started to feel like there were cramps happening. This was my first time being fingered and it really hurt. I don't know if I just got a stomach ache from being hungry because I hadn't eaten alot before this but the feeling continued throughout the day today. I am very nervous and I don't know what to do. Please, help me.

[Hatshatshats]

You are making yourself sick w worry. That can cause the symptoms.  Buy a dollar store pregnancy
Test and test,  on a date that would show.  But your not, I really don’t think you are.  You better buy condoms and spermicide.  Talk to your parents.

[Stormy19]

Lol u gotta be 23 now if u posted this in 2011 hope u see this again and laugh

[Stormy19]

Ur not pregnant lol once sperm hits oxygen it dies

[sharin]

If anything it’s cuz he was a little to rough.   Of course I wish u wait longer to be messing around like this. But I’m not ur mum.   First off don’t ever be afraid to tell a guy that what he’s doing hurts. Or that it feels good. They need to hear both. But wait till u r older. Boys this age don’t always try to control themselves. Some can get very aggressive.  Even tho u r saying no. They may not stop.   I could get raped.  Even by a friend. It happens. That’s why it’s a good idea to wait a little longer. When u both r more mature.
Make sure his hands r clean. Just FYI, he doesn’t have fingered u, for it to feel good. It’s the clitoris that has most of the feel good nerves in it. The clit is on the OUTSIDE, of ur vajaja area. NOT the inside. If u don’t know that yet, u might want to explore  ur own body a little more.   U can look on line to find out just exactly where ur clitoris is. They all look a little different lol. Some clits r a few mm higher up or lower down.  Learn what feels best to u. Learn how to give urself an orgasm.  It can take a little doing. But u will figure it out lol.
Then u can ur boyfriend where that spot is EXACTLY.
Kids ur age don’t really understand where things r. Look at medical drawings on line. Also, USE CONDOM IF U R GOING TO GO ALL THE WAY.  If he refuses he is selfish and immature. He could care less if u get pregnant. Even if he says he’ll marry u. He won’t. So be smart. Also u should get on the pill before u have sex. Go to planned parent hood. U r old enough. But the pill won’t protect u from infections or STDs.

[Sabrina10101]

You might be pregnant :/ start taking prenatals asap and tell your mom! Good luck :))

[sharin]

She is NOT PREGNANT  FROM BEING FINGURED.   That’s just not how pregnancy happens.   She also had her period.    There is no reason to make her panic.   U can not get pregnant like that.  

[Jdjdic]

You can get pregnant if sperm comes in contact with the vagina for example a few years ago 2 girls got pregnant because some guy came in a pool they were in

[Acarrillo93]

Omg she is not pregnant from being fingered..do you guys even know how sex works?! Pleaseee learn about it. There are books and plenty of articles to teach you.

[Mspearl612]

I doubt seriously that you are pregnant.  However I think that it could be possible that his hand might not have been clean and you might have at UTI or some kind of bacteria infection.  My advice to you is to read and learn about this situation before you engage in this kind of activity and if the pain continue, maybe see a doctor because it's probably just an infection.  You are definitely not pregnant for his finger having sperm on it.  I don't think sperm can even survive that long outside.