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Sex problems with my vagina ? help please.
hi, so me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 2 months without condoms and still everytime we have sex it hurts alottttt. like all different hurting and im worried about it. soo what usually happens is we'll be doing it and it will start burning and swelling alot. so we stop then it turns alll red and the lips swell up soo much and even sometimes my bones around my vagina hurt like if we have sex then again soon the bones hurt so much he cant even get it in. i reallllly need help, i dont know what to do and i thought it wasnt supposed to hurt after a few times of sex.
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Well I must say I too think that you are a little to young to be having sex, However I am not your mom and that is your decision to make anyways to get to your question your pain may be caused be a couple of different things so please read carefully. First be cause he is your first sex partner and because you are young his penis may be a bit to large for your vagina so because of the pain you are feeling you may not be relaxing tell your partner to take it slow make sure you use lots of lubrication this to could help. Another worry I have is you might have an infection or STD even though he is the only guy your sleeping with doesn't mean your the only girl he is sleeping so with this said I really suggest that you go and see a doctor. It is routine to go see a doctor at least once every 6 months, they will probably have a better idea of whats going on. Also might I add that you really need to be careful not to get pregnant you are still very young and have alot of fun things things and explore before kids, I only say this because I was a young mom and it was very hard. Anyways I hope this helps. And if all else fails then go see a doctor. Be safe and enjoy your life.
i take birth control everyday.. and we use condoms sometimes. plusss ive only slept with one guy and this is him. and i dont plan on sleeping with anyone else so my respect isnt lowering :S i just need to know why it hurts and if i should be worried
I read your profile and it says you are 14? If that is true then my advice to you would be to stop having sex altogether. Their are many diseases out there which you can get from having sex, not only that, you could very well get pregnant especially if your not wearing condomns! Having a baby at 14 is NO FUN. But I can't tell you what to do, just give advice, and if you are going to have sex please wear a condomn and get on birth control. You need 2 forms of protection in order to be pretty safe. Please just stop having sex, your so young and you don't need to lower the respect you have for yourself by sleeping with guys. good luck
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