so i thinkn i might be prego by someone i don even love

[TRINITY381]

ive missed my period for two days now and im already freakin out and cryin cus i don even want to image wat my father will do to me once he finds out that im prego. im 18 ill be 19 in june so its not like im a complete child giving birth to another child. ive been prego before but thats a whole diff story and nobody knows about that and what i idid with that, but anyways im goin to take a hpt on thurs you know you buy one from the store and take it. thing is i din have much money and im still lookin for a job so i have some type of money to throw out there to buy something if im goin tohave this kid. that is if im even prego and i really think i am cus me being me im always believein things that i read and hear so i freakmyself out when i don need to be worried about anything..... but so far ive had more discharge than usual. it all jus comes out whenever it wants to and im thinking yaay i got my period but its all white stuff. now this is the second day in a row that ive had a mean headache, discharge all day and night and some minor cramping like im on my period but theres no blood. idk what this means and i need to kno how to tell my parents that i need their help and to not be thatupset with me.. imnot a child anymore so i need to startt hinking like an adult i don want them doin this for me but i do need some guide... any suggestions? am i prego or not?

[AnnieBrooke]

Listen to the other ladies, they are helping you a lot.  First, figure out if you are even really pregnant.  Then if and only if you are, decide on some steps and an approach.  (Maybe talk to a trusted adult friend and run it by them before talking to your parents, just for the word on whether the plan sounds mature and impressive or unrealistic, to adult ears.)  It doesn't sound like you are thinking of any alternative besides getting a job and raising the child yourself, but consider all possibilities, adoption among them.  The main thing is, know if it is true before you upset yourself and your parents.  Good luck, honey, I hope it's not true.    

[CrankyAmy]

First and foremost, just because you are 2 days late doesn't mean you are pregnant.  You need to find that out before jumping to conclusions like what you are going to do with a baby that you may not even be pregnant with.  Stressing yourself out can make your period even later.   With your previous pregnancy, did you have this same kind of discharge as you are having now?  My advice would to get yourself to a doctor or clinic of some kind in your area that can help since you don't have a job right now.  If there is a Planned Parenthood nearby (look them up in the yellow pages) they can help you with a pregnancy test but also with birth control which you should be using since you are sexually active.  
Calm down, take a deep breath and think everything through.  You need to know the facts instead of acting straight off emotion.  If you find out you ARE pregnant, THEN you can figure out what you are going to do.  Good luck.

[Niquea3]

Well love anytime you have unprotected sex and that means no condom or form of b/c there's always the possibility of being pregnant. If I was you I would strongly consider what it is you plan on doing with this pregnancy before bringing it to your parents because if there's one thing I know about its being a teen mom and having your parents ask what do you plan on doing and you not even knowing yourself yet. Before having a talk with them think long and hard about how you want to tell them and what your ultimate decision about it is because that's gonna be their main concern besides why weren't you using some protection. Your right you are an adult but if you've never shown them that before they won't know how to treat you as such. If your planning on keeping the baby which no matter what anyone says including your parents its your God given right to keep and raise it or not if thats what you decide...I would talk to the guy that you had sex with before talking to them. Its important for you that you get all facts and information together before addressing them. Tell this guy your plans and see what he has to say to see if he'll be supportive in your decisions. Then when you've covered all bases tell you parents. Believe me once you have all the other areas straighten out it will get easier for you to tell them.
Good luck and remember whatever you decide will be life changing for you and your parents so make sure its what feels right to you and not anyone else ;))