i'm stressed!!!!!!!!!

[SARAHSHAH65]

im 21 and today is 31st dec.2012
my last period started on 15th dec and ended around 19-20 dec.i have a 28 day cycle and tz alsomst regular,on 22nd and 23rd i was with my bf and we were pressing genitals together 9without any protection on him)but clothes on.he was wearing a thin layer of cotton pants and me my panties.he had pre-*** on him and i was wet as well.and then he rubbed my * inside of my panties.im not sure if he had any pre-*** on his hand.2nd day he pulled my panties down and rubbed his **** (he was wearing pants) on me.but i guess clothes were not dat soked with fluid and it was easily drying.he didnt go inside and not even his finger went inside of me.but we both were wet.im scared if any of sperms gt inside me! is it possible.ya i knw tz possible bt soo unlikely..bt please tel me wat abt this situation?? :,(
da problem i have is..i had a pain in my lowes stomache on 22nd,24th,26th,n so on until today;31st.and as well as vaginal discharge.somtimes water colour,,somtimes milky.i thought it was bcz of stimulation and all.bt im worid abt this lil pain wch lastin for around 9 days till now and tz most likely a ovulation pain.bt normally i start ovulating on my day 12-14.15.but this time i had this pain on day 8. :(
please anyone tel me whats this??
i have vaginal discharges normally but i was worrin soo much .i was thinkin dat im thinkin too much n im havin these pains n all in my head.
im to get my next period around 12th jan 2013.if i gt it on dat day,,is dat mean im not pregnant?

[SARAHSHAH65]

thank u ! but im still worid..we were nt doin it for so long and can sperms go through clothes? today im nt havin dat pain and discharge( white) is there in very small amounts..
and do i have da risk of pregnancy without penitration?(in my case)

[specialmom]

Hi there and welcome to the forum.  First let me say that you are playing with fire.  You need to keep your head straight in the heat of the moment so that you don't do anything irresponsible that can end up getting you pregnant.  From what you describe, I doubt you are pregnant but you never know for sure until you miss a period.  I don't get pains when I ovulate and never have.  If it were that easy to tell when you are ovulating, it sure would make fertility issues a lot easier (those ovulation predictor kits wouldn't be needed).  You did have sexual play around the time that you could have been ovulating, however, it really does usually take sexual intercourse to impregnate someone.  Your best bet is to try not to worry (it doesn't help anything) and wait to see if your period shows up.  If it is late, take a pregnancy test but my guess is that it will show as usual.  good luck