First time

[Stargirl28]

Hello , so I finally had sex (regret it) I wasn't mentally ready for it but physically I was if you get what I'm saying . So we had sex using protection ( a brand new condom) and so he came inside me (still had the condom on) and when he pulled out he held the condom on securely and pulled out and he took the condom off and it didn't break or looked like it had a hole or Sperm leaking from it I assume if it was a hole it would came through and when he pulled out the condom was still intact and yeah and I squeeze it just for fun and nothing didn't come out . I was wondering two things . 1) would I get pregnant still , and 2) can *** leak through the top of the condom

[Stargirl28]

I accepted your answer , I was just wanted to know how would you know ,

[specialmom]

Listen, I don't think you should be having sex because there will be NO answer you will accept about the subject.  Get on the pill if you don't trust condoms.  That's all I have to say.  Good luck

[Stargirl28]

well can you help me ? All I want to know is how would you tell sperm leaked through the condom

[specialmom]

Good luck but I'm not sure we can help you.  Anxiety means you ask things many times without really wanting answers hon.  Please consider talking to your doctor about the anxiety issues.  good luck

[Stargirl28]

i was just wondering how would I know if it leaked , yes  in a worry bug

[specialmom]

I am wondering if you ever sought that psychiatric consult we'd talked about for your anxiety?  I think you need to address your anxiety as soon as possible.  

good luck

[Stargirl28]

And  how exactly would I know if the Condom leaked

[specialmom]

Oh, and I just now noticed it is stargirl posting this.  You've had such anxiety for so long.  I must comment that I really hope that you seek help for the anxiety and questioning pregnancy.  I don't think you should be sexually active if you will freak out EVERY time and think you may have gotten pregnant.  good luck

[specialmom]

Hi there and welcome.  Well, I'm sorry you regret giving up your virginity.  It really IS a special thing as is every time you decide to give your body away to a boy from now on.  Make sure it is the right time and the right thing to do.  Even if HE really wants to, respect your body.  Every time you have sex with someone, you are giving away a little piece of yourself sweetie.  

I'm so very glad to hear that you used condoms.  VERY important to ALWAYS use protection each and every time.  Condoms work pretty well and it sounds like it did not fail during intercourse (rip, slide down, etc.) so I would say that it most likely worked and protected you against pregnancy and stds.  In the future, if you become more sexually active, you could go for two things to help ensure that you don't get pregnant, you could go on the pill AND use condoms.  

The only thing though that is 100 percent safe is abstinence.  All birth control can fail.  But this generally happens when it is either not used correctly or the product is faulty (neither of which sounds to be the case for you this time).  

Good luck and take care of yourself