Female ejac, rough sex and now sex is painful

[Starlight1982]

To anyone as well...i recently lost my virginity to a guy I am dating so I am not incredibly experienced but when he fingers me rough and hard, I experience this gushing type and one time it just kept coming out and soaked the bed...I realize there is debate as to what this liquid is(liquid like pee but not pee)...sex didn't used to be painful and we could do it for awhile and sometimes multiple times a day...since soaking the bed experience, it now hurts to have sex and really isn't enjoyable especially when he first puts it in or if he takes it out too much while it's inside of me...I also don't get wet like I used to...it's not even been 2 months...could something in my vagina have collapsed? Vaginal tears? When he is in me with his penis it feels like the gyno and normal positions aren't like they
used to be.  after sex I go pee and it initially hurts to pee but is okay after if i use a warm washcloth and there will be a streak of real light pink blood on toilet paper but it doesn't continue to bleed...BF says that is normal but online it days STDs or pollups or endometriosis...please help me...that I know of there is no pus or scabs

[chrissymom]

Hey hunny,
The gushing could well have been female orgasm or ejaculation if you like it is normal, bearing in mind that it should not have any bearing on what your sex is like after it happens. The dryness you are experiencing can be caused by certain other things, for example your cervical mucus (natural lubrication) dries up at certain times in your cycle. Also it is important for you and your boyfriend to experiment and be gentle whilst becoming aroused, this will ensure that you are wet enough so we wont hurt you when he enters the vagina. I do suggest going to see the OBGYN for a normal pap exam, they can test for any infection, but most  likely the bleeding could be caused by something as simple as a rough part on your cervix that bleeds slightly when you have rougher type sex, So, calm down on the rougher sex for a bit and make sure that if you are not wet enough you use plenty of artificial lubrication, buy some, saliva dries out too quickly and often makes things worse. Go see the doctor so he can find out about whats going on inside you. Good luck and I wish you the best of luck. x

[saraht11]

i would go and see your doctor as it could be a number of things dont think because you cant see an std it isnt there its better to be safe than sorry. at least that way you could put your mind at ease and also get some lubrication to help you when u and ure bf do the deed hope i was of some help to u x