had sex with two men...please help me out?

[sillyme93]

I was having sex with guy a for about a week..last time I had sex with him was January 19 th..then a week later had sex with guy b ...not sure the exact date of my period but I know I was on my period on February 1st..then had sex with guys b again..and only been having intercourse with him...I went to the doctor on April 4th and the doctor put me at 8wks 0dys which means I would have gotten pregnant on February 7th I was having sex with guy b around this time.. I'm just very confused..and it's such a scary thought..I went to the doctors today and it's a girl :)  but I really need advice..could my ultrasound be off? Could what I thought was my period wasn't?? Could it be guy a..?? Somebody help pleasssee!

[sillyme93]

No.we was never in a relationship..we just talked..I was faithful to him until he started having sex with my bestfriend..so out of spite I had sex with her ex boyfriend...that's why I'm so scared..I don't like guy a that was a dumb mistake I did out of spite.

[specialmom]

If he wants to be the father of this baby, then go with it.  Especially if the other guy is out of the picture and would object to being the 'father'.  he'd be a sperm donor verses the other guy you are in a relationship with.  ARE you in a relationship with guy b?  I had thought he was your new boyfriend but it sounds like you were very casual for 2 years having multiple sex partners outside of each other.  has the relationship changed?

[sillyme93]

Yes,they both know about eachother..I've been messing with guy b for two years now..but I've been telling guy b he's the father..should I not do that??? I feel like he is..but its just always running through my head what if ya know?

[specialmom]

Sweetie, they can be off.  19 days?  I don't know.  But it is a close enough that I would assume it is guy b unless there is an issue once the baby is born.  Does guy b know about guy a?  Are you in a serious relationship with guy b where he thinks you are having his baby?

[sillyme93]

yes,I would like guy b to be the father.but could my ultrasound be 19 days off?

[specialmom]

Hi there. Welp, a paternity test is about the only way to know.  If it helps, most women ovulate mid cycle.  This is a bit of a close one to call.  So am just not sure anyone on the internet could figure out which guy is the father.  Would guess guy b but couldn't say for sure.  If you want it to be guy b, go with it and if there are signs after the baby is born, deal with it then.  good luck