He whipped it off with a towel. Then we went and ate and came back to his room and he fingered me. But thank you this put my body a little bit to rest!
It would be a difficult way to get pregnant. What does "whipped it off" mean, washed it off, wiped it off, or whipped his finger around and let it fly off? If the latter, you would have a higher risk. If he leapt up and washed his hands with antiseptic soap, you have no risk. If somewhere in between, the risk is small but probably somewhere in the course of humanity, someone has gotten pregnant this way. If the hand was exposed to air for a while and the semen had dried by the time he fingered you, than you have low or no risk. Even in the worst case it would not be an easy way to get pregnant.
Since you had a week off the pill, and had a period, it is possible for you to ovulate in this cycle. So no more fingering, OK? It could be that the bladder pressure you are having is from an infection, it would be far too early to feel bladder pressure from a pregnancy.
Try not to worry, you almost certainly aren't pregs.