update on i want a baby he doesnt

[souza123]

i recently posted about my husband telling me he wanted kids when we got engaged and now that were married telling me he never does.
I'm extremely nervous because a few weeks ago i forgot to take my birth control (i promise i didn't do it on purpose i wasn't planning on even trying for a baby for a year). and my period is 2 days late i had spotting for about a day and yesterday and today ive been throwing up. at first i was scared that i would never have a baby and now im scared that i might be pregnant.
and if i am, im scared my husband will leave me.i'm going to take a test tonight after work.
any suggestions?

-Souza

[oceans3]

just wondering if you were back yet! post tonight!!! never mind tomorrow...although i will be getting off to bed soon. hope it went well.

[souza123]

it went perfect i have never been so happy in my life he starting crying and hugged me i think he totally forgot about saying he didn't want one. he started talking about names. he hasn't stopped smiling hes going to the store right now to get sparkling cider to celebrate im sooooooooooooo happy!!!!!! this is so perfect its like a miracle! thank you all so much! i'll write more in detail tomorow!!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox souza

[AnnieBrooke]

Boy, souza, there is no news better than that after so much worry!  Congratulations, you are going to be a mommy and he is going to be a daddy!!!!!

[souza123]

thanks i was craving a 7 up lol! were going to dinner in 30 min. im so nervous hes in the shower i cant stop checking this to see what you all are saying i'll keep you posted either tonight or tomorow!!!!!

[AnnieBrooke]

Souza, about food:  Soda is very laden with sugar; you don't want to drink much of it because of the risk of gestational diabetes.  Did you know that a can of pop has up to 12 teaspoons of sugar if it is not diet?  EEEEW!  And if it is diet, then you have to worry about all the chemicals in it.  Until you get your books, the main things to watch out for are:  no alcohol, no smoke (ciggies yourself or second-hand), immediately do add pre-natal vitamins to your morning routine and if you want to, extra folic acid (I take a lot of it separately from my prenatals), and limit the excess salts, sugars and carbs.  Fats OK only if truly in moderation, but stay away from transfats.  Use olive oil on your salads -- it's wonderful for you!  Snack on fruits as much as you can rather than cookies or chips.  Also move to whole grains instead of white flour products, because of the nutrition aspects and because of difficulty with constipation LOL.  The rest, you will be able to get from your doc and from books.  Good luck again on the big talk with dh, I'm thinking of you!  Annie

Who is this:  Thanks for the very nice compliment!  A.

[souza123]

hey im getting ready for dinner im sooooo nervous thank you all for the advice its made this so much easier! can you drink soda while your pregnant i havent gone and gotten all the books and stuff yet?