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what should i do
I have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn. We have sex everyday or every other day i dont understand why he has to watch porn. is it normal for a guy to watch porn almost every day and some times masterbate to it. I feel like he dosen't like the way i look and looks at this other girls to get turned on. been together for 11years have a 5year old son i want to leave in tired off this. has anyone been in this situation and if so what did you do.
First, you shouldn't feel bad about yourself because of what he does. You've been together for a long time and have an active sexlife so he obvioulsy finds you attractive. What's more important though, is how you feel about yourself. Confidence is always attractive and very important to your own mental health. With that said, you should let him know how you feel about the amount of time he watches porn etc.
I don't know if it is normal to do this everyday...but sometimes yes. My boyfriend watches porn...he knows I don't approve of it, but hey I can't be there 24/7 for him. I personally do not care for porn. It's not my thing. But guys watch it and thats normal. Now if you start noticing that he is acting different towards you, or not wanting sex with you anymore...then you have an issue. But if he is still the same as he has always been an your sex life is good...then just grin and bear it.
no this is not okay. you should feel mad about this. he has an issue, and he needs help for it! your relationship will not survive if he keeps it up and you should let him know how much it bothers you, if he loves and respects you...no matter how you feel...he will stop what he is doing or at least get help to stop, if not...youre not that important to him. i went through that as well, and now i am with an amazing man who does not go to strip clubs, never watches porn and adores me! i left my ex and when i did i found nasty mags and videos under the kids dresser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i was furious...you deserve so much better than you are allowing yourself to have;) good luck, and ill pray for you;)
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