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Pregnant by fingering
Hi there,
First off, i appreciate all your help in answering my questions.
It happened on Dec 27,14. i met a guy for the first time (yes, he was a stranger) and things got heated up. He fingered me maybe once or twice (i don't remember) but i did not masturbate him. he did show me his thing, though, and i know he touched it as well (but not sure where he touched, as in top or not). After some time he fingered me. I got my periods on Jan 9. A few days ago (jan12) i met another guy who i had been talking over the phone for the past few days and he invited me over dinner. He took me over to his bedroom and he fingered me maybe once or twice. I am not sure if he had pre-*** on his hand or if he ejaculated. i asked him and he said he did not have any sperm. It was day 4 of my cycle. My question is, can I get pregnant by this?
2 days ago I did notice the stretchy white thing in my underwear. I have heard that it is something that you see before actual ovulation begins but since then i haven't seen anything that is more thick.
Last Sunday was a very difficult night for me. I slept for an hour or so. i was thinkin about this the entire night. Please help me.i got totally paranoid (i still am) and i was having trouble breathing because of the anxiety i went thru. i've promised myself not meet any guy for a long time now. it's not worth the anxiety. i've looked up several forums and some say yes some say no to my question; also, what is the risk of std in this case?
thank u much for your help.
First off, i appreciate all your help in answering my questions.
It happened on Dec 27,14. i met a guy for the first time (yes, he was a stranger) and things got heated up. He fingered me maybe once or twice (i don't remember) but i did not masturbate him. he did show me his thing, though, and i know he touched it as well (but not sure where he touched, as in top or not). After some time he fingered me. I got my periods on Jan 9. A few days ago (jan12) i met another guy who i had been talking over the phone for the past few days and he invited me over dinner. He took me over to his bedroom and he fingered me maybe once or twice. I am not sure if he had pre-*** on his hand or if he ejaculated. i asked him and he said he did not have any sperm. It was day 4 of my cycle. My question is, can I get pregnant by this?
2 days ago I did notice the stretchy white thing in my underwear. I have heard that it is something that you see before actual ovulation begins but since then i haven't seen anything that is more thick.
Last Sunday was a very difficult night for me. I slept for an hour or so. i was thinkin about this the entire night. Please help me.i got totally paranoid (i still am) and i was having trouble breathing because of the anxiety i went thru. i've promised myself not meet any guy for a long time now. it's not worth the anxiety. i've looked up several forums and some say yes some say no to my question; also, what is the risk of std in this case?
thank u much for your help.
@specialmom:
Thank you so much!!!
I really hope I am not. I am getting really exhausted by the end of the day (atleast this week) and thinking it's a pregnancy symptom. I haven't waited so desperately for my periods ever!!! I hope it's just going on my mind and isn't possible in reality, like you said. This type of anxiety is really tough to deal with.
I am a female in my late 20s and this is the first time I have done such a thing. I don't know how and why it happened. I do not feel like meeting anyone (any guy for that matter) anymore as I am so disappointed with myself. One thing I'd like to mention, though, that he took off my shirt even though I refused (but later I did enjoy it) , and when he was trying to get his hands down there, I was pulling his hands away, but he managed. But then I enjoyed the moment. I am not blaming him completely, it's my fault too. Also, on that night, I slept after this happened but is it at all possible that someone had sex with you and you did not even notice? I am a virgin btw. I was not drunk that night. And I do not recall anything like that happening that night. I asked him and he said no we didn't have sex.
On some forums they say pregnant women can have periods. How far is this true? I think that's only the case when you have twins (superfetation, Ihink).
And thank you, again, for your post, it is really helping me breathe.
Thank you so much!!!
I really hope I am not. I am getting really exhausted by the end of the day (atleast this week) and thinking it's a pregnancy symptom. I haven't waited so desperately for my periods ever!!! I hope it's just going on my mind and isn't possible in reality, like you said. This type of anxiety is really tough to deal with.
I am a female in my late 20s and this is the first time I have done such a thing. I don't know how and why it happened. I do not feel like meeting anyone (any guy for that matter) anymore as I am so disappointed with myself. One thing I'd like to mention, though, that he took off my shirt even though I refused (but later I did enjoy it) , and when he was trying to get his hands down there, I was pulling his hands away, but he managed. But then I enjoyed the moment. I am not blaming him completely, it's my fault too. Also, on that night, I slept after this happened but is it at all possible that someone had sex with you and you did not even notice? I am a virgin btw. I was not drunk that night. And I do not recall anything like that happening that night. I asked him and he said no we didn't have sex.
On some forums they say pregnant women can have periods. How far is this true? I think that's only the case when you have twins (superfetation, Ihink).
And thank you, again, for your post, it is really helping me breathe.
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NO NO NO. You absolutely can not get pregnant from fingering. Sperm does not live outside the body. You must have intercourse to get pregnant. Please disregard the information above as it is incorrect.
However, you are playing with fire. When you get to the point you are at, then you are one step away from intercourse in which pregnancy IS a risk. Buy some condoms hon!!
However, you are playing with fire. When you get to the point you are at, then you are one step away from intercourse in which pregnancy IS a risk. Buy some condoms hon!!
Hi, thanks for answering! He said he did not, but I can't trust him. I shouldn't have done it with someone I did not trust. I realize my mistake but I hope it is not too late. I really do not want to get pregnant. I have heard that you can't get pregnant during your periods and it was my 4th day when this happened. But let's say he had it so can i get pregnant in the next 4-5 days (I have also read that you can't get pregnant if you weren't ovulating). Also, I got a blister on my upper lip a couple days after this. I used to get cold sores earlier but this one is taking too long to heal. Also, it was bleeding today and feels like a small hole in my lips (sorry, I know this may sound disgusting). pls help me. should i take a pregnancy test, my periods are due the 9th and waiting for the same. Thanks again.
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