Worried about HIV after unprotected genital rubbing and cunnilingus

[Lostmind37]

Hello Experts and Doctors,
Today  is the 12th day after I had unprotected cunnilingus with a married woman unknown of her HIV status, there was a naked genital rubbing for 10-30secs (I am sure the vaginal fluids were on my penis glans which is uncircumised).literally worried of HIV, so took HIV RNA pcr and duo on 10th day (came back Negative). Still worried coz I have symptoms of fatigue, night sweat and 99 degree fever. I am from India. A married man who did a blunder of his life. Advice is highly appreciated and will be grateful.

[Sara_MHModerator]

Your question has already been fully answered with regards HIV.

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[GuitarRox]

You can stop testing and worrying. You had no risk at all of HIV. HIV is transmitted by unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV needles to inject drugs. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. Both things you write of, genital rubbing and unprotected oral sex are zero risk for HIV. Don't test anymore, you didn't get HIV from this.

[Lostmind37]

Have been reading your responses@Guitarrox, appreciate your time. Thanks for the quick response.
Can I just assume RNA pcr negative is my take.

Sorry I know and I have read people asking same questions repeatedly(I am one amongst now :).

1st day of exposure I got lymphocele on my glans(cyst kid of tube due to vigorous BJ and  HJ) which was ruled out as nothing by urologist and now it's gone.
5th day got sore throat with mild fever.
After 4 days of antibiotics course, it got cleared.
Now 12th day, almost every evening I experience a bit of sweat, itchy sensation overall, fatigue and mild feverish.
Scared to death even I notice a mosquito bite now.

Hope these are nothing to do with HIV.

Please answer this and will definitely stop asking questions on this topic and also stop my nervousness(which kept make awake till 4AM.)
I will start educating the people on based on my experience.

[Lostmind37]

Have been reading and following @curfewx,@anxiousnomore and @guitarrox, you guys are life savers.
Thanks for all the efforts and time you guys take to answer people like me.
You guys rock.
Please answer my above query. Will Vanish
Will just keep reading n Following u all.

[GuitarRox]

You really didn't need to write all that back to me. I stated that you had no risk. So, all of these symptoms, etc. are pointless in association with an hiv risk you didn't have. and now you are afraid of mosquito bites?

I think you need to address your anxiety as the problem here.

No risk at all

[Lostmind37]

Thanks @Guitarrox. Will be grateful to you.

Mosquito bites, insect bite rashes any bump or hump I see on my body I am jumping off..

Yeah that's the level of anxiety I have and without working out have lost 4lbs in 8days coz of this :)

My nervous brain is still thinking of which question to ask you now ;)

Lesson learnt by loosing 12 days of my life in anxiety.

Your answers actually gave me relief from these anxiety symptoms. Thanks n best wishes for your future..

[AnxiousNoMore]

You wrote"Have been reading your responses@Guitarrox, appreciate your time. "
You should have moved on from this non-event long ago since you already read the responses before you started this thread.

[Lostmind37]

@anxiousnomore, yeah you are right. Lots of ifs n buts led the path till here.
Thanks a ton again.

[Lostmind37]

Hello all, back again.
Today had an appointment with so called Urologist.

I don't understand why these so called Urologist here in India are saying even oral sex cause HIV and RNA pcr is not sufficient on 10th day. Even the minimum secretion touching the genitals causes HIV itseems. Asking me to refrain from oral sex or even kissing my wife till 90 days.
Why these people just scares me out. I am a father of 1 year old n my wife is still nursing. I going nuts by this.
These are shooting up my anxiety level n literally sweating.

@everyone, really need your support. I am really loosing myself coz of this scare.

[GuitarRox]

We already answered you. Our answer will not change. you had no risk. We aren't here to constantly quell your  resurfacing anxiety and have give you the facts. YOU need to get help with your anxiety. It's unreasonable and irrational. You had NO risk.

[Lostmind37]

Thanks a ton again sir. Will try to focus and solve my anxiety issues now. Thanks for being there you all.
Will move on from this.

[Lostmind37]

Back again,
Sorry but need to know what I am going through.
Feeling tired always, have sweats during day also.
Don't really understand what I am going through. Today is the 16th day post exposure. Experts please help me. I am unable to do anything.