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Am I at risk for hiv?
Hello, so last week I went to a strip club and while I was getting a lap dance with a stripper she brought her ass to my face and I touched her ass with my face and maybe the vagina. She was wearing a g string.Should I be worried for hiv? I had pulled a small agnail(the top of the skin on the lip) of my lips the previous day because they were a little chapped but the small wound had stopped bleeding the same day after some minutes and it was not bleeding the next day that I went to the stripclub.Also I didn’t see any blood on the strippers ass. I was also fully clothed,no sexual interaction with her, only this touch.She also rubber her ass to my penis but I was wearing pants(from inside) and sweat pants(outside).I also had a boner.So, should I get tested for hiv am I at risk of gotten it?
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There is no reason to be concerned about, or test for, a disease that you cannot possibly have.
When it comes to sexual activity and HIV, if you don't have unprotected vaginal or anal sex, you have NO RISK for HIV. No detail that you can think of would turn your event into a risk.
When it comes to sexual activity and HIV, if you don't have unprotected vaginal or anal sex, you have NO RISK for HIV. No detail that you can think of would turn your event into a risk.
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Ok you really relieved me thanks a lot.
Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air (maybe blood, maybe cuts, maybe wound, lip, hand, fluid, tongue, clothes, etc. ) . You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, there wasn't a penis in an anus or vagina and I wasn't injected" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you ANSWER "No, there wasn't a penis in an anus or vagina and I wasn't injected" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either. You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you still have questions about your risk, after reading all of the above, then it is because you didn't answer the QUESTION above.
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So I should not be concerned and anxious about catching hiv from this situation and not get tested at all? Thanks for the response and sorry but I am very anxious.
Because I touched the the ass and vagina of the stripper with my face.
You didn't answer the QUESTION. Answer> No, there wasn't a penis in my anus when my faced touched her vagina and she didn't inject me when I touched her ass, so I had no reason and should stop asking questions that were already answered.
sb ...so I had no risk and should stop asking questions that were already answered.
Ok you relieved me from my anxiety thanks a lot.
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