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HJ no condom

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I was given a hand job from a sex worker today without a condom. She also massaged my scrotum. I tapped my penis on her face a few times but nothing else. But there was skin to akin. Since we didn't have a condom I didn't wat her to give me a bj and she wasn't too rough on my penis either. I had a look at her hands and face and didn't see anything worrying. At one point I had 2 of my fingers in her mouth and later I used same had to finish myself off.

So I'm worried about
1. Her hands touching my penis without condom.  
2. Me penis touching her face.
3 her saliva on my hands and then me touching my penis.

I'm not sure but maybe risk of Herpes and HPV? When can I test for these? If so can I pass this on to anyone in my household through non sexual means like kissing.

Thank you!
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Your question has been fully answered related to NO risk related to hand jobs. We wish you well.

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Hand jobs are NEVER a risk for any std. Period. We're sure.
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Thank you. Is there not any risk if you have direct skin to skin or from me touching my penis after toching her mouth etc? Some online sources seems to say even brief skin to sking contact may lead to Herpes or HPV I udnerstand no chance of other STDs
you asked, answered. You asked again, answered again. You realize now you are asking a third time, right? Hand jobs do NOT transmit std's. Period. This is a moderated forum and only accurate information is allowed to be given. Work on your anxiety. That's the issue here.
When we say "skin to skin", we mean oral to genital, genital to genital, or genital to anal skin.

Touching your penis after touching your mouth is a theoretical risk that doesn't result in any practical risk.

If you are worried about HPV, get vaccinated if you haven't already. That's your best protection, along with condoms for penetrative sex.

The rest is just anxiety, as GuitarRox said.
Thank you and apologies for the repetitive questioning. I was concenred that I had allowed her to touch my genitals with no protection. Thank you once again for your time and putting my mind at ease. I feel a lot better.
Glad to hear you feel better. :) Take care.
Hello, it's been 7 days since the events I described. I haven't had any discomfort but I noticed a redness on the head of my penis just now. Its probably my anxiety but it feels tingly and im oddly aware of it since i noticed it amd stayed thinking about it.
I must admit I masturbated and have seen similar redness in the past so it's probably not herpes. My question is would I definitely now it is? Does herpes develop fast and by tomorrow I'd have painful blisters etc? Is it possible to have a herpes outbreak and not notice it?
The redness does not feel bumpy more like caused by the friction from masturbating which again I have had more than once before at least it looked similar to what I see now...
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You can't getvan STD that way
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Are you sure? I read around that technically you can get things like Herpes or HPV....
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