I'm I A Virgin?

[wonder26]

I'm Asking This For My Girlfriend. She Was Raped By Two Diffrent Guys. The First Raped Her 2 Times. The Second Did It 7 Or 8 Times In 1 Week. The First Time I Didn't Know Her Yet. I Know Her When The Second Guy Did It. Shortly After The Second Guy Raped Her We Started Dating. I Lost My Virginity To Her And We Both Want To Belive That She Lost Her Virginity To Me, But She's Not Sure If She Was Still A Virgin When We First Had Sex. Was She Still A Virgin When We Had Sex? Did She Lose It To Me Or The First Guy?  Please Shed Some Light On Our Problem.

[Nighthawk61]

SORRY THIS IS A VERY VERY OLD POST (2008( AND THE POSTER IS NOT LIKELY TO BE READING ANY COMMENTS.

[Nighthawk61]

I'm glad to hear that you've found each other. Please get your girlfriend to talk to someone about what happened to her. If you are in school, a counselor. If not, the Rape Crisis Hotline will direct her to see someone (who has also been raped) to help her. Otherwise, this could affect your lives going forward, and neither of you deserve that. God Bless you both.

[TigerSwan1985]

you were her first she chose to be with you the other 2 asswipes took something that was not theirs to take.

[wonder26]

Thank You. We Have Been Wondering This For About 3 Months.

[rose625]

She my have lost her actual virginity by being raped but as for the emoitional part of it I would say that when she decided to be with you she was making a decision that she wanted to make. In this sense I would say that she lost her virginty to you.

[wonder26]

She Feels The Same Way. She Is My Only One. She Is The Only One To Do Anything To Me. Even See Me Naked. She'll Be Glad To Hear This. Thanks For The Help.

[jml1986]

Rape can change the fact that your were her first. Losing your virginity is done hopefully by two people in love. I was raped before I consented to sex and the only one I count is the one I willingly enjoyed with my partner.

[SL345]

Physical acts can occur like rape and accidents, that can change your body. But from a psychological standpoint, you were her first sexual partner.