Upset

[Madeintheusa]

Is it rape or not ??
My husband likes to use chains no problem until he screwed me so hard I was screaming begging him to stop he thought it was funny he did not stop afterwards he asked me if I liked it
I sad no I HELL no ever time his dinner ain't done or house ain't cleaned he yells do I want chains ugh
We have kids ages 5 8 10 all girls
There names
Karen
Kylie
Kora
He calls them the KKK
He has a older daughter age 16 I am sure she nose  but sex or sex noises one she came home early from school and heard all the noise how embarrassing
The 16 named Katrina moved in with last April she is a big help
Kieth  always wanna have sex but he always so much loud much I no the 16 hears he wants me to moan louder *** I mother my 5 old wakes up during the night and crying he will not let get her cause he wants to finish
The 16 looks at me with some I no what y'all doing
He mentions to 16 year if I ever hear noises from your room I will Kill the boy !!!  I can't work he wants me at home with all the kids I wanna go to school for pharmacy technician
I am sooo confused???!!!
Why does he wanna have sex the girls are sleeping in can ask to turn the TV up radio on
Nope lights on and quiet
I get upset the kids can hear they don't no what's going but they can hear
I worried bout the 16
Couples days she said she was sick I drop the girls of at school
I came home 16 was masterbating in the bathroom and the noises were the horrible
I acted like I slipped she suddenly turned on the shower
The bathroom is across from our bedroom
The bathroom door was shut I did not see
Next I ran into my bed room and my husband was laying on the Bed I had no idea he was home
Did he hear daughter making the noises ??? That's creepy next he asked to if I could suck him and I sad No !!
I asked if he heard Katrina he yelled NO !!! Is it me and why was he home from work that day !!! Is it normal Katrina to do that ????

[TigerSwan1985]

its normal for a teenager to masterbate maybe not quite so loudly but that is normal. however hubby sounds like he has got some real problems and yes it is rape if you tell someone to stop but they dont. it is creepy that he was listening to his kid do that but unless he was watching her or helping the authorities cant really do anything, but if you are that upset you should leave.

[Jesuslovesmes]

Yes take the girls and run
I can't believe he lay in bed and not here her playing in the bathroom yes you must leave before it's gets weird trust I need help too stay strong !!!

[Jesuslovesmes]

Yes take the girls and run
I can't believe he lay in bed and not here her playing in the bathroom yes you must leave before it's gets weird trust I need help too stay strong !!!

[allmymarbles]

The situation is too sicko for a cure. Take your three girls and fly away.

[Jesuslovesmes]

I would love to give u so advice
I had a similar story

[Jesuslovesmes]

You are stupid too stay there with that man run run run

[Madeintheusa]

Thanks so much
I am ready for a change

[Nighthawk61]

It may be normal for your daughter to act that way, because it is what she has become accustomed to.
it' sounds like this man is a complete jerk ,
and certainly not someone i would want around my kids
it's a big move to move on
but i would consider this abusive and would leave to a shelter with my kids if need be
it sounds like you, like most, would really benefit from getting yourself a college degree and going to work
more of a role model to your kids that way
and when you're older, that's how you're going to judge your life, in the end
if you let this animal set the stage for your life i think in the end, it would feel pretty meaningless
sounds like you need to get to know some other independent women
who want to help
that's why i think you would benefit from a women's shelter,
but you have to be adamant that you're going to give yourself a good year without your husband in your life, at all. Let him fight for visitation and custody of your kids,
yes, it sounds like he's raping you and you must put a stop to it
lovemaking doesn't sounds like that, it is respectful of all parties in the home
i'm so sorry, i'll be your friend that can help to get you out of this , if you want.
Much love, Liz