HI All,
I posted recently about my marrige problems and just about loosing my wife if I dont make certain changes. Some other member posted they were going through simular problems.'
Well,my wife comes home from work today and tells me her best friend left her husband this morning ! I about fell over! And this morning,I had finaly talked to my friend about my marrige problems and he told me secretyl, he is going through the same thing also! There must be something in the air.
My wifes best friend hasnt had a good marrige in a long time. They have two small children. When they argue, he will text her and call her names like the "C" word" and such.Now Im watching this go on for awhile. Im wondering to my self, this guy scream at his wife and calles her the "C" word, and there still together ? I dont seem to listen to what my wife tells me am aperartly Im too jeluose ( even though she has her own cellphone, email address, own bank account,own car, is welcome to go visit her friends anytime or do volenteer work around town and girls night out, never even questioned, what she was up too, ever) but her best friend marrige stayed together forever while they abuse the **** out of each other. It just didnt make since to me. NOw, I can see those two spending sometime apart till they learn to respect each other. Amybe my wife will look at this realise, maybe she doesnt have it so bad. Yes, Im sure I can improve on the not listening thing and I am working hard on that.
This is like the second couple we know that has split up and including ourselves are the second couple needed to pay more attention to each other or the marrige is in jeopordy within the last month.Not to mention the members here I have heard from for thier kind support.
-Dez