omg I soooo know what you are talking about. I talk with my ex, .. its complicated, but anyway, he is the same way, and my best friend is too. She said, "bla bla I never had any problem and neither did so and so... bla bla"
We can't change them, would love to smack them, but just focus on yourself. I have asked both the ex and my friend to go online and read forums like this, but neither has cared enough to do so, but I am sure one is playing her farmville and the other is watching his porn, and neither is googling this for me, so screw them, LOL, just concentrate on us and what WE need, right? If you want him to help with something, make sure you come out and verbalize it and ask, don't expect to ever get anything without asking at least once. Am I right> LOL
hugs,
Lily
Great job! Keep up the great work!
Awesome post. Thank you, you are helping many with your words.
Thanks for the inspiration. I am just starting out and I need to read things like this to keep me focused. My husband is good, but he thinks it is no big deal. Of course, he has never taken more than one or two pills in his life and when he does take one, I say, "You'd better watch out." He says that is bull that it is mind over matter and he isn't going to end up addicted. I remind him that is how I started out. He still thinks it is no big deal. *sigh* I wish he was right....but I know he's not. He has no idea how really miserable I feel.
I am so proud of you, Congrats girl that is AWESOME, I was taking Loratab 10's for over 10 years about 4-5 a day. I am on day 4 of not taking any, it has been the hardest thing I have ever done. My husband is 12 days clean, everyone we know just about takes them so we are losing friends because we quit, which is fine with me, they would have been bad to be around. Again I am proud for you, and it gives me hope. Hugs Renee
Thanks for sharing this. Congratulations on your clean time.
Thanks for posting. It is so helpful for those trying to get or stay clean! Congrats, Congrats, Congrats!
Congrats on your clean time! Hold that clean time sacred cuz your life depends on it. Continue to do the things you are doing and dont get lazy. You are doing great!
Thank you for coming back to share your story. Stories like yours give people hope and the knowledge that it can be done. Congratulations! :D
Congrats!! "God" Bless!
Good for you!
Yes, the forums do help a lot. Especially if you don't have many people in your life. Its good to see others going through it too, knowing you are not alone.
Thanks for posting,
hug,
Lily