He sounds alot like me during my first w/d. I was in sheer hell...actually ended up in the ER due to lack of hydration, but I was vomiting alot. For me, my restless legs went away in about a week. After day 5 they weren't there much during the day because I was up and moving, cleaning the house, taking care of our small little "farm" and being as active as I could. When I would walk around the house I would do lunges...dance while I swept the floors (I know it sounds stupid) and just incorporate more movement into anything I was doing. It seemed to help a bit....along with a dose of nyquil before bed.
You are a very awesome wife & he is lucky to have your support:) Even though it doesn't feel like it, he is very close to feeling some real relief. There is a light at the end of this tunnel. Has he tried posting on this site? It may help him.
I am on day 4 too, and I am still experiencing the leg issues. They seem to come and go but when they come it is pretty bad:( I too have been taking potassium, and many hot tubs. I really hope the physical w/d symptoms start easing up.....for goodness sakes we are on day 4!!! Sleep is hard too, I took an ativan last night and only slept for a few hours and my legs woke me up. I just keep on telling myself I have made it this far, I can make it 4 more days and I hope to be feeling like a new person. You are a wonderful wife, I wish I had someone to go through this with. I will be thinking and praying for you both. Keep us updated on how he is doing today:)
Restless legs is a given with withdrawal. I am at day 69 and it is much better but still there. Walking an hour was what was suggested by my doctor. It does help, but not immediate. If you have a good relationship with your doctor, sometimes coming clean with them will help as there are many non addictive meds that will help with the restless legs. I am on one now that does the trick. I told my doc. and it made a world of difference to have her support as I began this process. Good for you for being there for him,, it can make all the difference. Remember it is his road and there may be a few rocky patches and detours. Relapse is possible without help. The opiates are strong and want back in. Be on guard.
I have heard it gets alot better by day 5. Tell him he is almost there. He is so lucky to have you there. I am doing this alone and would love to steal you.