Don't know where you live, but bees are in short supply these days unless you live near a beekeeper or in farm country, where they have to pay beekeepers to bring in bees for pollination. Bees are disappearing. Wasps are still around, and there's no way to guarantee you'll never be stung by a bee or wasp. Let me put in another way -- if you had an allergy to flowers, which you probably do to some kinds, does it keep you from going outside? People who don't suffer from anxiety just do what they have to do, it's not pleasant, but they don't worry about it all the time -- just as you were before the wasp sting. So your problem isn't the chance of being stung, it's the way you've let that fear rule your life. What you need to do most likely is see a psychologist who specializes in anxiety treatment to see if you can learn to think differently. That's really the only thing that can cure us chronic anxiety sufferers, though there's no guarantee it will work. It is what I'd try, because unlike most people with chronic anxiety, you know where it started and can work on that.