You may have to try a few different meds before you find one that works for you also talk to your dr about the possibility of mood stabilizers rather than or in addition to anti depressants or anti psychotics which is what they usually start you out on but getting back to your normal family life and getting peace of mind for your self as well as them is worth it to keep trying no matter how frustrating
Welcome to the forum...Im glad you found us. If you read through a few threads, you'll see that you're not alone....that MANY people deal with the same kind of symptoms every day. Anxiety disorders are very common, and while VERY frustrating and debilitating...they ARE treatable! If the first psychiatrist you saw didn't help you, then you need to try to find one that will. HOWEVER, you have to keep a few things in mind when seeking treatment for anxiety....
One, it takes some time before you really start seeing improvement and getting relief. It doesn't happen overnight. You have to stay open minded throughout the treatment, and have patience. If you try the medication route....it can take up to a few months to start seeing changes....not to mention that for a lot of people, there are some initial side effects that one must work through. Also,"talk" therapy is a must for anxiety treatment. While meds may help control some of the symptoms...theapy helps us to "retrain" our ways of thinking and teaches us valuable coping techniques. Often times treatment involves a good bit of trial and error...from trying different medications, and sometimes even different therapists or doctors until we find the "right match". The thing to remember is that you must keep trying until you find the right treatment plan for you. It does take work, and while we would like to see relief overnight, it just doesn't happen that way. We get stuck in the anxiety cycle....it takes time and work to undo that.
Keep posting...you will find a whole lot of help and support here. We know what you're going through. Take it from those of us who have been where you are...and have been able to work through it and reclaim our lives as we once knew them.
I hope you can find some peace today and enjoy your family. You WILL have better days ahead...if you put your mind to fighting for them.
Hang in there!!