Hi, all - I just tried posting this and got bounced out of my computer so if this is a repeat, ignore. Otherwise: I started seeing a new shrink today after 5 months of getting my meds from my primary care doc. Previous to that, I saw another shrink at the clinic I go to, whom I came to like a lot, despite some 'issues' we had. I was very afraid of taking meds then, and she took things slow. Unfortuantely, she left abruptly after I had just started to like and trust her, and until now, I refused to consider going to someone new. This new doc is actually the one who replaced her, but I wasn't ready to go to her then. I understood new docs were being hired, and was hoping to get someone not unlike my old shrink, as I'm an older woman and wanted someone similar. Instead, this new doc is only about a year post-fellowship, having just become board certified, last year, and she leaves me, frankly, cold. She sat at her computer during our entire time (30 mins) and seemed to care little about hearing my responses to anything not on the screen.
I told her I googled her, and liked her website, which offered a lot of forms of treatment and which promised various tests... She seemed taken aback, saying, "That's for my private practice!" I told her I understood that I was at a clinic, and couldn't expect loads of expensive tests. I really was, however, looking for more than a 'ok, here ya go, take these,' which is essentially what transpired.
I want to go back to my old way of getting the meds from the primary care doc and waiting until new shrinks come, perhaps a doc or two who might be someone I feel more of a connection with - I felt NO connection to this person at all, although she wasn't 'rude.' She is merely very, very young, and relatively inexperienced. My old shrink worked for over 30 years and I felt she really knew her stuff.
This one, for instance, told me to go up to 20 mg. of citalopram from the 10 I am now taking. My old shrink, aware of my sensitivities to medicine and my ocd concerns and issues, went very slow, getting me acclimated to the meds and also to the process. This one is like take it for 2 weeks, see how it goes. She also said (when asked how to reach her) that I wouldn't be able to do so unless I was in dire straits, e.g. 'suicidal,' as they just can't handle the patient load for anything less. I was like WTF? She said you'd have to make an appointment and come in.
Is this the Norm nowdays? My old shrink had a similar, come to your next appointment policy. Am I crazy to want to be followed when taking this stuff, not to mention the diazepam I'm still on? I need feedback, support, your thoughts, on what to do next. My gut tells me to keep searching for a new shrink, but in the meantime, I am following along here. Also, if I try to go to someone new, I fear I'll be labelled a 'troublemaker.' I suppose if I could just separate the experience out from emotion or a need for being actually followed, she can hand me the pills - she has an MD after her name. However, despite that I have my own therapist, I think that one ought to expect more from their psychiatrist. What do folks think? Thanks in advance for your feedback - Anna