Sorry, I meant to type "had widespread disease."
I can understand your concern, especially since you have widespread disease, comedo type, and high grade.
A sentinal node biopsy would have identified macroinvasion, but probably not microinvasion.
Local therapies (surgery, radiation) remove or attack visible cancer, while systemic therapies (chemo, hormone-suppressing meds, monoclonal antibodies, etc.) attack and hopefully kill invisible cancer cells (microinvasions/micrometastases) at distant sites.
I this was not already recommended, you could certainly request short-term followup, to see if the has node enlarged.
If you are highly concerned, you could also discuss with your breast surgeon whether it would be reasonable to biopsy the node.
Bestwishes...