I had a beauty of a cat that never got over 6 lbs and I took her in as a stray! She had a terrible urinary problem and went all over the house but I think along with the problem, my two male cats bothered her just them being around. It took 4 years before they all laid on my love seat with me . But we dealt. It takes awhile
Miss Phoenix has, hesitantly, exchanged nose touches with both the boys, then bops them.
A little update, these 6 months after Gotcha Day.
It was funny, last night.
Phoenix came into the people bedroom.
Cooper then went into Fort Fenix.
She was looking under the bed to see if he was there.
He was doing the same in the other room.
She spent time sitting atop the taller bookshelf next to my bureau.
He spent time sitting on the blanket covered box by the window, where she naps.
She jumped down, and was peeking around the solid door at him.
Cooper got bored, I guess, and went down the hall to the crows nest at the head of the stairway.
Phoenix went back into the "nursery."
All in all, about 30 minutes.
Buff was oblivious, sleeping under his blanket on the downstairs couch.
The visits are getting longer, with fewer complaints. There has been no flying fur or blood droplets. The times she has bopped Buff, claws were in. The times the boys have chased her, they stopped short of catching her.
Yesterday's episode of the Phoenix and Buff Show...
He was lounging on her captured ball toy. Phoenix rushes at him from where she was watching him by the other corner of the bed. She stopped with about 2 inches between their noses. Buff stayed, calmly laying there. She did reach out, bump noses and then scampered away.