Hi, I really hope some one can help. I have a daughter who is 7 and a son who is 5. I am training to be a midwife and my hubby is in the navy (Just want you to get the whole picture).
We have always had behavioural issues with my son from a young age. He can be a lovely child and then its like a switch is flicked and he becomes this horrible, angry, disobedient child. We have tried reward charts, taken all his toys away at one point. Taken away days out etc. We have tried every possible option to get him to behave he won't.
We now have trouble getting him to go to school in the mornings, her refuses to get dressed, only wishing to wear shorts, when its too cold and wet for this. He's started spitting constantly in defiance. screams, throws himself around in a tantrum, hits his sister. He only ever listens to my husband when hes home and several times had to call him in work and get him to come home to get him to school. This behaviour is now getting ridiuclous and makes it hard for me to finsih off my last year of training.
New development being, is i have discovered he has urinated in his bin in his room and on his uncles pillow (he lives with me whilst i do my training and helps with the children). And then yesterday i recieved a letter from school telling me he had urinated on a wooden train in the playground.
I really need some help. I plan on making a doctors appt wot get him checked for behavioural disorders now because i am at my wits end.
I have tried the nice approach and all the punsihments and he does not care either way.
Please someone help me with him, i no longer know what to do or how to cope.
Thank you.