My almost 4 year old son is very rough when he plays and gets very aggressive. I've tried kids soccer and martial arts. Especially in soccer, he gets placed in time out often because "he is very handsy". Besides being concerned to the point of crying, I am very embarrassed since he is the only one that acts this way. My son was speech delayed but now speaks and is cognitively at a level above his age, some of the things he says surprise me because he is so intelligent. He is also very sweet. Not a day goes by that he doesn't say "Mommy, I love you to the moon and back and twice around the sun" or ""Mommy, I love you and will take care of you". My mother recently passed away and I cry often. My son will say "Mommy, why are you crying, Nonna is with her family and at peace". He will get a tissue and wipe my tears and if he doesn't find a tissue, he will wipe my tears with his hand. He is always hugging other kids and at times can be a bit rough when he does, i.e. losing their balance. Since he was speech delayed, I've had him in Early Intervention from 18 months old. When he aged out, I was advised to keep him in the system by continuing with CPSE meaning he was placed in a school with special ed teachers. He is in a 12:1:2 program and more than half of the children are autistic and non-verbal. My son is talkative, informative and extremely sociable. I have been told he has sensory issues and cannot regulate himself when he gets excited. I've witnessed him punching one of his little female friends although not in anger, it is more like several taps with his fist. I am beside myself with worry. Please help me!