My 5 year old daughter is going through a peeing toilet issue that has been happening for approximately 9 months now but has reached an extreme level in the past 5 weeks. When its time for bedtime we do bath time, brush teeth, comb hair, story time, but the last thing we do is go potty before bed and then it starts. After peeing the anxiety will start to build. For some reason after she finishes peeing she says she has to still go. She will do this for 30 to 40 minutes crying and throwing a fit. She has been seen the Doctor just in case she had a urinary track infection but she was fine, plus she only does it at night. We try to help and calm her down but trying to help adds fuel to the fire. If we do leave her alone she still starts screaming. At the end we have to force her off by picking her up while shes kicking and screaming and carry her to bed. When this happens she keeps saying "I gotta pee, I gotta pee" quickly and repeatingly even though we told her that she does not need to. This has been happening every night and after finally getting her to sleep at night she will wake up around 4 to 5 hours later, come wake us up saying I need help because she has to pee again and then it starts all over again. We have tried many things to help. We are currently seeing a counselor regarding this problem but its not helping yet. Weve done everything from being extremely hard and spanking her to being nice and giving love and what she wants. Regardless of our ideas nothing is working. She definately does not like throwing these fits as she has told us throughout the day. She says she is going to be good and not throw fits. But it always happens. Like I had said before, during the day she is a total sweetheart, pees and poops fine. She also is trying to poop everytime she pees at night even if she has just gone. We are trying to setup to see a Child Psycologist, but they are either taking no more patients or book 3 - 6 month out. We at our wits end. I'm getting only 4-5 hours sleep at night for the last 3 weeks and its taking its toll on us. Any ideas and help would be great.
Thx.