Hi, I have a 3 yr old preemie. She was 4lbs 2oz at birth. I am also very nervous about her starting school this fall. She is very clingy and wants to be held when she is in a new environment. She has seen a developmental specialist throughout the last 3 years and finds "borderline findings". She is a little wobbly in her stride and will visit a neurologist for a full evaluation this week. Other than that, I find she is a loving,curious and happy girl. Her tantrums are tough on me and she falls apart when I correct her behavior. I worry that the teachers may not have the patience that I try to give her and will end up disliking school.
Thank you so much for your response. You have no idea how comforting it is to know there are others out there that have gone through this and overcame it. I have tried the coping or leaving option with her. I have a feeling that she is simply extra sensitive because she was a preemie. Thanks again!
I also have a premmie. He was born at 25 weeks. He does/has done the same things. At almost 6 he has outgrown them all exept the public toilet thing. Have you tried explaining to her, in 5 minutes brother is going to play with his loud toy and so you can stay and try not to be scared or you may go spend some time playing in another room and give her the option of coping or leaving? Dont worry the docs are right she will eventually out grow these "scares" I would try to expose her as much as she will tolerate though.
Thank you for your response. My pediatrician is very in tune to what is going on but doesn't seem to be that concerned. I think its being chalked up to "preemie akward" behavior which she will grow out of. I guess I will have to keep the pressure on her Dr. to help us out.
Have you asked the pediatrician about your concerns maybe he can recommend something or someone. It doesnt sound normal to me I have a 2 and 4 yr old their boys though and they arent scared of much and usually a simple its okay your fine helps them and their over it.