my 7 year old is kissing girls

[gelina]

My 7 year old is kissing girls. I don't know why his doing this if I already told him that kids don't soppost to kiss. N he keeps saying that he haves girlfriends...last week he said at school that he sees naked women I don't know why his acting like this if his not expost to this..I try punishing him, spanking him nothing is working I need help so I can talk to my seven year old...what to tell him..

[margypops]

To see naked women I think maybe he has been watching the wrong things on TV or the computer, who is he alone with ? in my opinion he has learned this behavior .

[MrsPincince]

HI:) JMO but punishing and spanking him will push him to be even more curious...It's perfectly normal for a 7 yr old boy to be attracted to girls (hey at least its girls). Have u thought about the girls letting him kiss them. He's probably starting puberty. U HAVE to be open and honest with him about sex. It's a conversation most parents dread but it's a reality we ALL have to face. U have to make him feel comfortable enough about the subject to tell u how how he feels. Remember puberty is a very confusing and embarrassing (for some kids) thing to go through. We as parents need to make our kids feel like talking to us about sex is just like talking to us about anything else...Believe me I'd rather be the one talking and teaching my child about sex and changes the body goes through instead of one of his/her friends filling him/her with a bunch of crap. Just talk to him and as much as u don't want to, u'll see that u and ur son will become closer b/c he can trust u enough to come to u first...Good Luck!