I have a 4 year old son, he insists of not listening to me, for example i tell him its time for bed and he doesnt wanna go to bed, every night its the same thing, but once the fight is over and he is in bed he goes to sleep. if we are out in public he will ask for something every single time after i tell him not to ask me befor we even arrive where we are going, and if i say no he crys and starts having a fit. when he is playing with other kids he is always telling me there not sharing, and they are going to tell on him and when i ask about what he says he didnt do nothing, he is always yelling and hurting his brother as well. when i tell him he is not listening and he just simply never learns he says " but i want to learn, but i want to listen" alll theee timeeee and it drives me crazy, he gives me attitude more then not. as well as he is always going to the bathroom to pee, all the time he is peeing and i dont give him much to drink at all so i have no idea what is going on with that. i have had numerous of talks with him and they are pretty deep conversastions to have with a 4 year old, but nothing works, if anything its getting worse.
my one year old son is always crying and whining, he as well is always hitting his dad aunties cousins brother and myself, and we tell him no and give him a tap on the hand sometimes but he thinks that it is funny, he also always wants to eat. neither of my children listen and i dont know what im doing wrong or what im just simply not doing, i spend time with them and i am with them everyday and give them each equal attention as best i can, i just need some answers anything you can throw at me. please help.
Allison