My x-husband left our 18yr marriage 4 years ago, leaving me with my three children (at the time 11, 7 and 4). I left our home with my children to begin a fresh new start. He moved his girlfriend and three young children in the home we left, in my childrens bedrooms.. etc. He was remarried within a year taking on a huge role as a "new" father of 6!
I have had awful behaviorial issues with my kids, my now 7yr old is doing much better (although is very wild) my 11 yr old and 15 yr old girls now are just horrible to one another-it has been going on too long and I am just exhausted in what to do anymore. My 15 yr old I had leave our home (2months ago) due to her behaviorial issues and disrespect for myself, my home and especially her brother and sister. In the past 1 1/2 years she has gotten into a ton of trouble, alcohol, tried one narcotic, sexual encounters begenning at the age of 13, attitude, disrespect, and the last resort was stealing from a local store. A month after her being grounded, I had her stay with her father.
Her fathers home and mine are very close in distance, so doing favors.. etc. is not a problem. We have parented wonderfully together for the past 2 years now and try to keep discipline the same between the homes.
I really do not know what to do anymore.. I feel I have given her every ounce of energy I have and there is nothing more to give. I have shown her great support during all of this, do not down talk her father, love and affection is always present and I feel as if all she has done is taken advantage of me and she could care less about anything.
If you could please give me some advice as I feel like I have failed and I know that I haven't!
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!! Maria