I don't know that she did it purposely But I do that she didnt come to me right away because I found bloody finger prints on her stuff. After I tried to put a bandage on it she would not let me and would stop squeezing it to make it purposely bleed. But to answer you question nothing major except for some minor depression runs in either families.
It sounds like you could really use some help here. So often I get the impression that the mom isn't trying, or doesn't have a strong enough personality to lead children to good behavior - but I'm really sensing that's not the case with you.
She sounds very, very bright but manipulative in a way that I've never seen in a 3 year old. Kids that age very rarely self-harm - unless it's banging their heads - but purposely cutting themselves is very unusual.
Is there any of this kind of behavior in your family or her father's?
i'm not really sure how to go about getting any further help. She is definitely not the typical child. For example the other day I had her in her room for a time out. Thinking there was nothing in there she could harm herself on or get into, but she came down stairs with a cut on her finger that was bleeding. She had climbed her dresser and tooken apart a picture frame and cut herself on it. She was only alone for about 4 or five minutes. Today She was in there for time out also. i was shutting her curtains ab it ago and realized that her window was completed open, screen and all. now I,m going to have to move her bed far away from the window and take all decorations from her room. On top of that no time outs in her room.
Hmm. Well, I know there's been some recent discussion in the psychiatric community that some rage disorders in children can actually be seizures - and this drug is used to combat seizures.
But I'm not sensing she has a rage disorder - do you? I've seen kids who suddenly fly off into unpredictable complete rages and are very sorry afterwards - and that looks like possible seizure activity to me.
Again, I'm not a doctor, just kind of thinking this through.
I'm really interested in children's behavior, and she's got a clustering of symptoms that I don't think I've ever seen before. Inappropriate eating of crayons, inappropriate screaming, self-harming, etc.
Can you get her tested beyond a pediatrician's visit?
i did do a lot of research on it which is why i have been so skeptical about it. She has only been on it for about a week and a half. The doctor did not diagnose her with bipolar was just discussing the symptoms and possibilities with me and said that we were trying to stabilize her moods. Before this one she had suggested Prozac. This is a scary thought for my three and a half year old.
Just doing a quick google search for Gabapentin, I'm kind of surprised the doc expected that to treat her symptoms. Have you researched this drug?
If I were you I'd call the doctor and find out what symptoms he was hoping to treat. Although I'm not a doctor, I did find several references on the net that looked reliable (pharmaceutical) that said it's ineffective as a mood stabalizer or with bipolar symptoms.
Best wishes.