I have a 2 1/2 year old girl who will be three in Dec. She is the most picky child to feed and get her to eat anything. She really shows no interest in food, and only has a limited amount of things she will eat. She often refuses to feed herself with a spoon/fork, and to be honest she prefers soft food like baby food. She goes through this type of behaviour when she refuses to eat anything, and will spit food on the floor, mush around on plate or gags on food to the point she vomits everywhere. She nibbles at food, and takes hours to eat someting soo small. She drinks only small quanities of milk with +++ encouragement. I get soo frustated with her becuase i don't know what to do with her. I worry about her health, weight, vitamins, etc. The doctor tells me it is just a phase that most children do at this age, and dont worry but i do, I feel bad if she hasn't had anything to eat all day, and most of it is junk when she does. Any tips?