I haven't read the other posts so what I have to say may have already been recommended. For the time being I would not have her sleep outside the home. Eventually, as she feels more secure, and grows older, this phobia will likely leave her. However, if you treat it as a major problem (through undue emphasis) it may well become a major problem.
Yes it did and I think you ...my point was, and I apologise for the unclear way I put it, was she doesn't want to go now and it maybe a good thing not to push her. However it is your decision. My opinion is that children go at early ages to too many sleep overs and very often problems arise we see it a lot. I would speak to your daughter and if she doesnt want to go let her stay home ..
You might be right about the thought of losing me. When I first started dating my fiance she was jealous a bit and we have discussed this matter over and over again. She no longer feels jealous but I think she could be afraid and bothered that now I am sharing myself with someone else and she feels lonely.
I never dated for 7yrs because I didnt want her to get hurt and I think that may have made it worse because it was us two for so long that I think she is worried that she is forgotten about.
Thanks for your post it makes a lot of sense :)
Well I have have sleepovers because my daughter has always wanted them. Thats a weird question. Lots of kids have sleepovers. She may have one every other month or so. She wanted to go to her girl guide camp for week for the last three years it was her choice. Sorry I just dont see the relevance of the question. Its not like they are strangers houses they are her best friends and are like sisters. The issue I am having is this week as she is at my friends because like I said I was a single mother for a while and where I live summer camps are around $300 per week. So for the last three years my friend offers to take her for a week to help me save money that week. I dont force my daughter to go to sleepovers if that is what you are taking about.
She loves sleeping at my mothers house and she might do that once every three months.
To be honest it was good for both of us for these sleepovers because she is very clingy and always has been and I needs breaks once in a while or I will lose my sanity.
I hope that answers your question
May I ask why you have to have sleep overs at all ot at least just occasionally ..I dont think its good for children especially young ones to be away from parents Let her stay home if she wants to why has she got to go ...Let her be with you at home .