aggressive 4 year old

[le754]

Please help me!  My almost 4 year old son is still very aggressive.  I thought that by now he would have grown out of it, but he hasn't.  At pro-k his teachers tell me he seems very angry.  My son is part of a very loving family...and no violent or excessive cartoon time.  I've tried the 1,2,3 Magic system and it did work, but how long should it take a preschooler to realize that he can't hit, scratch, push, scream or kick?

[margypops]

Please check all avenues this isnt a learned behavior, has he older siblings, cousins Family he could have learned from ?You say your family is very loving that doesnt mean to say that other family members think some behaviors are okay, children copy . If this is not the case perhaps a visit to the Doctor is in oder to sdee what is going on.