14 online audio masterbation with 22???

[Netreker3]

Ok, so I'm posting this for one of my friends children and personally I think something is wrong. She met this guy online (1 thing I found wrong) then the second thing is she was the one who suggested it to him (14 to 22). The third thing is that she said she knows it's wrong but it's very addicting, that's the third thing I found wrong. The guy she met is not bad from what I seen (background checks) and she only met him for a couple of says until she did it... Is something wrong????

[margypops]

Absolutely ...he is probably preying on other kids ..

[Nighthawk61]

This man should be reported to the police.

[allmymarbles]

This sad scenario will be played out over and over again, for as long as there are predators, innocent children, and lax parents.

[adgal]

I agree with you.  The simple fact that this man is 22 and this girl 14 and are communicating on line is enough to cause a huge issue.  14 year old's are not known for their great judgement which is why these child predators are so often successful.  They are often flattered by the attention of an "older man".  And for it to have gone so far as to have "on line masturbation?"  It doesn't matter if it was this young girls idea or she instigated it.  A normal healthy 22 year old man would not want any part of it.  He is 100% responsible as the adult in the situation and should be charged.  She has to be protected, even if she is taking responsibility.

[allmymarbles]

None of the parties involved appear to be sufficiently upset at the perverted situation of the girl and her predator. That is what particularly strikes me. In a normal household there would be an explosion of mega proportions.

[Nighthawk61]

This girls activities need to be completely revamped. All of the time that she spent on the internet and more needs to be spent on activities that will give her a hightened sense of respect and responsibility, spoirts ~ swim team;, reading ~ book club; writing ~ journals; babysitting, a part time job . I think that by providing this girl with age appropriate activities she will more likely associate her growing pangs with pride and responsibility instead of sex.  Sometimes we are so eager to do everything for our children that we forget that it is our job to help them fly away someday soon. Talking about sex and pride and responsibility will help her when she takes a step toward a mature relationship. Reading up on how to talk to a child about sex couldn't hurt. Children are getting more mature these days because of what they eat. They can't help maturing early. The need more help these days than 40 years ago. Thank you for posting for your friend. We all are rooting for you and the girls mother to connect to her and make a difference. Good job!!! I think that if there were extracircular activities it will take the sting out of monitored computer use. Good luck, and God Bless.

[margypops]

definately no computer she is in danger ..possibly needs more supervision ..

[Netreker3]

The thing is, she is generally a Very well behaved child, she addicted to her mother that she didn't know what came over her, but I'm personally recommending theropy because im afraid she might have a condition. At least she told us about it befor it was to late. I also did suggest no Internet to her parents for awhile, so thank you :)

[specialmom]

Her parents need to take away her internet access, lockdown her access and lock down her.  I agree about not knowing when someone is a predator.

Her parents need to end this like yesterday.  good luck

[Netreker3]

I personally think she just needed someone to say it out, because I think think she knows it's wrong. But I have called the police and thy are currently tracking him down as we speak. thank you :)

[adgal]

If I am understanding you correctly, a 14 year old girl met a 22 year old man online, and she is engaging on online masturbation with him?  If this is the case then heck yeah something is seriously seriously wrong.  My next call would be to the police.  I don't care what kind of background checks he passed, normal 22 year old men do NOT get involved with 14 year old little girls.  No level of maturity on her part makes it ok.  Her being the one to suggest it does not make it ok. This child is in danger from this man.  Keep her away from him, and do not allow her on line without supervision.  Call the police.