my 4 year old is too out of control and i am not sure what to do anymore, time outs, taking toys and going to his room arent workign anymore. not only that he now says he hates me, calls me the B word and says he is going to kill me. he even has ways he says to kill me, ex..chop off my head, stab me and so forth. I have a 11 month old and i am so worried he will end up hurting him so i want to take care of this as soon as i can. not to mention how emotional it is for me, it has gotten so bad i usually dont make it through the day without crying. i just dont know what to do anymore. please help.