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No ***, no baby?

So today I am 7 weeks and 2 days and I am very confused to who the father of my baby could be. So I had an affair with a falla round about the 17th of September and at the time me and my ex boyfriend had been split up for awhile. Anyways 2 days after this affair he decided he wanted to fix things up and I never told him anything about it. So from the 19th of September right up till I conceived my baby and onwards I was with my ex boyfriend who then become my boyfriend again. Soo I find out Im pregnant on the 20th of October and my boyfriend was with me. I then find out on the 5th of November how far along I was (6 weeks, 1 day) at the time. Anyways the person I had an affair with decided he wanted to tell my boyfriend we slept together and that chances are the baby is not his, but I know for a fact the baby is my ex boyfriends. The person I had an affair with never full ejaculated or put *** anywhere near it, but my ex boyfriend I allowed him to ejaculate in me. How is it possible to get pregnant to someone who never *** in me, but not to be pregnant to some who from the day we got back with each other leading up to the day of conceiving this baby when he always ejaculated in me?
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It could be possible because if my prenatal paternity test is correct...i got pregnant by no ejaculation! Crazy. Precum got me preggo. :D
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134578 tn?1614729226
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Do you know that it a doctor tells you that you are 6 weeks 1 day GA (gestational age), he or she is counting from the first day of your last period?  (Or from a computed last period if you are irregular?)  All medica counts of pregnancy begin at that point due to it being something that can be seen, versus ovulation which is hidden and unseen.  If a doc told you on November 5 that you were at 6w1d, you got pregnant about 4 weeks 1 day prior to November 5, or around October 7.  The dad would be your ex-now-boyfriend.  Not the guy from September 19.
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134578 tn?1614729226
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Incidentally, if the guy from September makes a stink, just tell him you will see him when the time comes for a DNA test.  You have nothing to worry about.  Explain how doctors count pregnancy (if you get one of the "Your Pregnancy Week by Week" or "A Child is Born" books you will find the weeks count explained and can show him).  But if he doesn't believe you or understand you, be prepared for him to blab to your boyfriend, and this WILL make your boyfriend nervous.  So tell your boyfriend soon that you must have conceived around October 7, and have the doctor explain how pregnancy is counted by medical people so the boyfriend will understand that "6 weeks pregnant" in doctor language means 4 weeks since conception.
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