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can someone reassure me
I had sex with guy on 25th november then sex with my bf all of december I am due 22nd september . Had ultrasound on 30th january dating me at 6weeks 5days is guy in November the father z
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Sperm can't live for weeks inside you. A baby from November would be much more developed when the ultrasonographer saw it than a baby from late December. Talk to your ob-gyn, he or she might be able to relieve your fears.
Am I jst being crazy .. I have irregular cycles and positive I had period on 27th November till 30th then It came bk for a day on 1st december this is quite normal for this to happen ..... but I keep thinkin what if it wasnt my period .... also can sperm survive for weeks inside me ?? I keep thinkin what if its the guys sperm but I didnt actually implant till 4weeks later ... or what ever if my baby measured as 6weeks and 5days but its really more but its jst small compared to other babys .xx
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Talk to your doctor, he or she is more "official" than someone on the Internet, and maybe some authoritative reassurance will stop you worrying.
For what it is worth, we get a lot of posts on this forum from women who have no reason to worry (dates a month apart, a period in between) who are obsessed with worry. I was surprised the first time it happened, but by now kind of think that it has to do with feeling that maybe if they worry enough, it somehow magically won't have happened. You won't be able to worry a guilty conscience out of existence; all you can do is decide that was an error but one whose time is gone by, and learn from your mistake, and pledge not to make that kind of error again. It's kind of tough, I know. Go forward with good intentions and promises never to err in this way again, that is the good you can take from the situation. Sorry it is not easier for you.
For what it is worth, we get a lot of posts on this forum from women who have no reason to worry (dates a month apart, a period in between) who are obsessed with worry. I was surprised the first time it happened, but by now kind of think that it has to do with feeling that maybe if they worry enough, it somehow magically won't have happened. You won't be able to worry a guilty conscience out of existence; all you can do is decide that was an error but one whose time is gone by, and learn from your mistake, and pledge not to make that kind of error again. It's kind of tough, I know. Go forward with good intentions and promises never to err in this way again, that is the good you can take from the situation. Sorry it is not easier for you.
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The guy in November has nothing to do with your pregnancy. The conception calculator I use says that your possible range of conception dates are December 26 to January 3.
They said I was 6weeks and 5days never said due date tho . Then had another ultrasound 2weeks later and I was 8weeks and 5days then I thought I was going for 13week scan but they put me at 12weeks 5days with due date of 22nd september
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It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like you conceived in the last week of December. When you had the ultrasound on January 30, what due date did they give you?
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