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Who is the father of my unborn baby?
I had sex with Guy A May 28th 2021 and Guy B June 17th 2021 .My period came on from June 5th to 9th.According to my ovulation tracker,I ovulated on the 17th.I am currently 38 weeks pregnant.Which one is the father?
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Guy A is originally May 28th but I never got him tested because I had a period ,so I figured he wasn’t.So I rules him out and narrowed the other guys and got two of them tested.It’s now between the (May 28th) guy or the June 17th guy.I’m trying to figure out did I get pregnant before my period or after my period.
In the first post you wrote about this situation, you said you had taken a prenatal paternity test but you were waiting for results. In that post, you said "I had unprotected sex with Guy A on the 13th but we used the pull out method," and then later in that thread, you said "It turns out that it wasn’t guy A." This leads to the conclusion that the person you were testing with was Guy A. Now you are saying you never got him tested. Did you actually do a prenatal paternity test then?
The details are contradictory. Originally, you said there were three guys and you tested Guy A and Guy C. You're now saying you never tested Guy A but you're saying you "got two of them tested." Does that mean you have tested Guy B and Guy C? If that is the case and both are ruled out, what is the question? (Are you saying you don't trust the tests, or that you didn't really test with two guys, or that there was a fourth guy?) Please clarify because it's hard to advise you without full data.
Also, could you use 28th, 13th, 17th and 20th to designate the guys, rather than A, B and C? The way you explained it before, the same guy was Mr. 28th and Mr. 13th. You said that you tested with him, and he had not come up as the father. But you're saying above that you didn't test with Mr. 28th.
If you tested with two guys and there were only three guys, that should have answered your question. But if there was a 4th guy, and given that you haven't tested with the guy you want most to be the dad, I could see you at least wondering if a woman can get pregnant and then have a period. (But if that had happened, how do you explain away your ultrasounds? They didn't say the baby measured as though it had been conceived in May.)
Please understand we're a judgement-free zone here and don't count up the men and go tsk tsk. But we're volunteers, and only have so much time to devote. Just say what is real, and we will try to be helpful.
If you tested with two guys and there were only three guys, that should have answered your question. But if there was a 4th guy, and given that you haven't tested with the guy you want most to be the dad, I could see you at least wondering if a woman can get pregnant and then have a period. (But if that had happened, how do you explain away your ultrasounds? They didn't say the baby measured as though it had been conceived in May.)
Please understand we're a judgement-free zone here and don't count up the men and go tsk tsk. But we're volunteers, and only have so much time to devote. Just say what is real, and we will try to be helpful.
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Guy A -- sex on May 28
Period June 5 - 9
Guy A -- sex on the 13th, but since ruled out as dad by DNA test
Guy B -- sex on 17th
Guy C -- sex on the 20th, ruled out as dad by DNA test
If these dates are accurate, I'm trying to figure out what is making you ask about Guy A on May 28 versus Guy B on June 17. Are you feeling like Guy B was too close to your period to get you pregnant? But how do you explain away having had a period after May 28, plus a DNA test with Guy A that said he is not the father?